Sounds great. What about forgiving yourself if you have any guilt feelings as regards whatever it was that broke you heart?

Great advice...very painful thing to get through but we all have. Wish I had this list then. Great job, Love, Bonnie

13...take revenge! ! ! scissors were invented to take those Pradas and Valentinos to the shreder ha! ha!! ha!!! ha!!!! haaaaaaaaaaaa!!!

Georg

and sweeping, lots of sweeping -fortunately living on the beach means i could sweep twice daily if necessary! oh Belle -this made me smile like this: :( all good advice, fee said it already...unfortunately, with my travelling ways, i can have no poodle, but i do nest with a family of doves - and Meral, chuffed parent of a fluffy yellow baby, has just coo-ed :D - she may have said nature is better than pills, but i really can't be sure -either that or she was telling me again that i need to smoke less! Your 12 things to do list is great, as is your poetry - now i really must get on...things to attend to etc :)) Have a wonderful day Belle Poetess :o)Nicky xx

All good tips Belle but if I may I'd like to add one of my own:

Allow yourself time to heal, for the death of love, if it was real, needs to be mourned the same as we mourn for physical death.

Fee