"The Kingdom of God is at Hand", how many times have we heard that in church and may have yelled out with joy, "Praise God!," or spoke it quietly from the inside. And as we thought about it, we prayed for that to be so in our lives in connection to getting the best jobs, or getting the best house, the best car, the best schools for our children, or even getting the best beautician or barber to do our hair..loll. Yet, we have forgotten or thought it was hopeless to pray for that when it comes to a relatiosnhip.

Yet I want to say to you, the Kingdom of God is at hand, when it comes to getting and keeping the best mates for a blessed relationship. Whether you are looking for a relationship or you are in one and need it to get better or you may have to leave just to draw that relationship to you.

The Kingdom of God is at Hand, and it can be here on this earth. I am talking about a Spiritual Partner. One whose relationship is where both mates seek spiritual growth for themselves first, and by doing that they then both draw unto one another because they have love to give and not just to take. Have you noticed that when you are around someone whom you can feel that very kind of love, (I mean that Godly/Spiritual unconditional loving energy) that you feel drawn from the inside to them - that's what I mean!!

If we believe in this saying for so many other things...then we must start believing and then getting it for our relationships.

In most relationships we play power games or have power struggles, meaning we are really trying to control our mates, whether its through manipulation or anger, all because it is the traditional marriage or relationship model which is centered around survival needs, where couples are emotionally distant but work together to achieve survival goals in life. For example, just to get a house, or keep a house maintained, to just raise the children, to work a business etc., this kind of power is "external power". The power I am referring to is "authentic power", which is Godly or Spiritual love.

My brothers and sisters, our biggest struggle is understanding what's behind all of this. It is that we are trying to make them love us or not, i.e. trying to make them give us the "authentic power". Not realizing that when we do this we rob our mates of their energy. We tend to manipulate or force others to give us attention and thus energy. This is because we don't use our own "authentic power" from inside to then give it to our mates..yes our energy, our love...which is Gods love within us.

All of us want to be loved, and I believe that regularly radiating Gods love and feel being loved, greatly helps to prevent and overcome cancer and other diseases. When we radiate this type of love, we become invincible. Diseases, depression, oppression and so many other negative things, including negative people cannot touch us.

The idea here is, whoever has the strongest intuition leads, that means whoever has the most insight to the "authentic power" or love, yes Gods love. This is not always a man or woman every time and sometimes one mate leads more than the other.

I end with this, a Spiritual Partner is like a butterfly, the more you try to catch it, the more it flies a way, yet, if and when you stand still, that butterfly will then softly fly and land on you. So, when we are led or drawn towards that person we love, and they land, all we need to do is then hurl ourselves toward that love, and then later on we can understand why it works..loll.

Peace Love and Truth