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We are continually bombarded with opportunities, what to do regardless of the item or situation.

As you are reading this, you are reacting, which will emanate a response. You are in control of what you allow in and what you provide. Indeed there are factors, which may trigger issues and remembrances. These in turn may deter or detract you from your appointed purpose. Consider these as mere poperotsi. The click and flash before you all in an attempt to obtain one simple thing, your attention, or a simple reaction.

By now, you have either come to an opinion or are mulling things over. A response will emerge, what will it be? No one will ever know, save you and whom you inform, but that is not the point. This intent is to call to your attention, the very factors, which are ever present to you. You always have a choice; the selection comes with both a reward and a consequence. These two are mere categories, what are the collateral damages or beneficial factors. Self-adulation is not always the most motivating thing.

More and more, people respond with “I feel good in helping people,” or “I enjoy making people laugh.” I ask you what is the true intent here. Now please do not misunderstand me, let me nip that quickly. I am not deterring anyone from some self-happiness. I am asking is that what truly motivates you. The proverbial “string attached” method. In closing, if I have offended you, that is a response, you have allowed something in, is that what you wanted?

If I have made you think, what will you do from here? If you perceive this is a centrifugal and redundant, how can it be better stated? Will you dismiss this altogether? In any case, you’ve a reaction to accept or decline. Ponder, Choose, Respond is the correct order.

Peace Bro. Smith SGS  


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