DEALING WITH ANGER AFTER DIVORCE
By:
Mileah K Shore
Well, you started out in love with each other. Staring into one another's eyes in a longing and loving manner. You plan your entire life with your spouse. The two of you plan for children, a home, career and maybe even where and when you will retire. But suddenly you find yourself alone. There may have been some warning and yet there may not have been. All you know right now is that your marriage is finished.
It doesn't matter who did what anymore. You are angry about many things; your uncertain future, your finances, your broken heart. You will go through many emotions during this time but anger is quite possibly the most dangerous one. This unpleasant emotion will also be the most common. It will have to be dealt with on an ongoing basis. Especially if there are children involved in the failed marriage.
Your particular anger level will be determined by many factors. It will mostly depend on who did what despicable things during the divorce. If there was infidelity involved there will be a different type of anger than if they took all the money and closed the accounts. Pain is pain, all the same level just different type.
Embraced ~ Embrassé
Vickie