There is a simple shift in thinking that can drastically explode your personal magnetism and charisma. But be warned, because this is so powerful, it can easily be abused.
When you approach a beautiful woman at a bar or other social environment, what goes through your mind? Most guys think thoughts of "I hope she likes me,' or "I hope I don't say something stupid," or something else along those lines. Unfortunately this gives her all of your over your own self perception, or self image.One's self image is a powerful indicator of how deserving you feel about receiving the good things in life.
If you think thoughts of "I hope she likes me," what you are doing is allowing your social value to be determined by somebody you haven't even met. Would you give your wallet or house keys to somebody without even introducing yourself first? Of course not. Yet that is what happens again and again when guys approach girls with the attitude of "I hope she likes me."
While it feels absolutely wonderful (likely more so than anything else) knowing that a really attractive woman with a great personality finds you attractive, you shouldn't allow your self image to be dependent on what a girl thinks about you.
Of course if you've been in a relationship with someone for a while, then certainly you are going to respect their opinion. But a girl you've never met before?
The easiest way most guys learn to get around this is to approach from a standpoint of curiosity. (And no, I don't mean being curious whether or not she'll like you!) Curious about her personality, curious about her interests, curious about her political beliefs, and most importantly, curious if she has enough value to be included in your life.
The singular most powerful shift in thinking you can undertake to drastically improve your seduction success with women is to detach your own self-image from her response to you.
Allow her the freedom to express her likes and dislikes with worrying about you getting upset. Everyone has right to their opinions, desires, and idiosyncrasies. You'll notice that when you fully develop this mindset, your seduction skills will become more powerful than you can ever imagine. But be careful, you don't want to go too far.
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