"From my heart to yours my brothers and sistas"

When you say, "I LOVE YOU", mean it.

When you say, "I'M SORRY", mean it...and look the person in the eyes.

Engagement should be a time of planning together. Build a "hope chest" together. Watch a man or woman who appears to be stingy. (They don't like to share their money) Marriage is about 2 people coming together in unity. Sharing not fallening out with one another. You haven't even got married yet. ((lol))

Believe in love at first sight. It can happen you know.

Never laugh at anyone`s dreams. God might have showed them that dream. Would you laugh at God? Never doubt.

Love deeply and passionately.

Don`t judge people by their relatives.

Talk slow but think quick.

Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.


Call your parents and let them know how much they mean to you.


Say "God bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.

Remember the three R`s: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.

Don`t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

Marry a partner you love to talk to. Somebody you have had years of getting to know. Somebody that's been there through thick~n~thin come hail or high water. Somebody that puts a smile across your face every time you think of them or see them. ((smiles)) Sistas somebody that will WORK and don't mind taking care of you and him (and a family should the two of you bring forth children) Also, be aware that you can work if you so choose to. To help make ends meet. As you get older, her/his conversational skills will be as important as any other.

Spend some time alone.

Open your arms to change, but don`t let go of your values.

Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. But, realize when you need to talk open up and begin sharing with one another. Sometimes conversation is needed. That's one of the biggest problems with couples today. Nobody is talking. We could solve a lot problems by confronting the other seeking the Lord on all things. Grab one anothers hand and go down on bended knee in prayer. PRAYER CHANGES THINGS.

Read more books and watch less TV.

Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you`ll get to enjoy it a second time.

Trust in God at all times. But lock your car. (This is common sense)

A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.

Share your knowledge. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER....


Never interrupt when you are being flattered. ((smiles)) Fellow christian don't allow the enemy to make a fool out of you though. Use wisdom. You know what the bible says.

Stay prayerful......

Fast my brother...my sista'

Attend your church services.......

Mind your own business it'll keep mess down.


Once a year, go someplace you`ve never been before. ((smiles))


If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. Not many will do this one. READ YOUR BIBLE.


Learn the rules of the game and stick to them.

If you have found true happiness enjoy it.....hold on to it for as long as the Lord thy God give you to live upon this earth. If, the Lord has blessed you and showed you what it is he wants you to have then what's the hold up? The only one getting in the way is Y-O-U.

Don't be like the world.....

IF YOUR SAVED STAY SAVED......

Pick up the phone sometimes and call a friend .....

Buy lunch for a fellow saint sometimes.....

Buy a bag or 2 of grocery for somebody unable to make ends meet. (Have I did it? Yes, I have. What about you my brother/sista?)



Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than ever expected.

In His Love,
Min. Nina