This saved some relationships I know about.
Love, repect, security; most men will give that to their woman. However, many forget the ultimate secret. 'Girls just wanna have fun.'
Yes, like the song. And the man does not have to be fun. He just has to arrange the fun.
Be the director of fun.
A 25-year-old Boston woman (unknown to me) responds. Here's her email, EXACTLY as I received it:
Dear Mr. Kyriazi,
I just wanted to tell you that you’ve really pegged it with the “Girls just wanna have fun” philosophy. It’s SO TRUE. That is what we ladies want, to be taken out and shown a good time. We can’t stand couch potato men. And the key word is “LIFESTYLE”.
So many men take you out on a few dates, and then after that, they get lazy and all they want to do is sit on their butts and watch TV. They dazzle you at first to reel you in, but don’t make it a LIFESTYLE.
My ex-boyfriend never wanted to go anywhere, and it was one of the reasons I dumped him!! I mean, give me a break, I’m 25, I don’t want to stay at home every night!!
Please get the word out to as many men as possible because, at least in my experience, a high percentage of men are in dire need of your James Bond lifestyle advice!!
Sincerely,
Jennifer
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To think of all those times I had a very active lifestyle in my youth and not even a television to watch. But no woman at my side because I was quite careful with my money and didn't just spend everything that I earned or flashed it in a money clip in places where women would notice. My budget didn't include high rolling but a rich exploration of what was around me, but with no one to share it with.
As men get more powerful through their position in life, they become more attractive to women. However, their careers often require them to be away from their spouses and their needs. Like my wife did with me after our expensive (long distance telephone calls) courtship handed with marriage and settling down to what she did what I did with her finding that it didn't satisfy all of her needs even though we shared a lot in common, like travel and new experiences. She didn't like my associates and research. We enjoyed watching TV together.
Ron