Mileah, now that's a nice name. Sorry about the divorce. I think that this is a topic that much could be written about. You did a good job with this write.

I believe it is better to have an ending to any relationship that is unhealthy no matter if one feels there is nothing wrong, because for the other perosn there apparently is something wrong or unfufilling(the one who wishes to leave/infidelity whatever) It take 2 people to make a relationship work & only one person to end it. The grief & pain of loss is a nessesary step in renewals recovery to start anew. Your article is informative, and anger truely is very dangerous & self destructive as well. I was mis prescribed a medication and I encounter rage for months I was a cannon & finally I had gone to another doctor to complain about that whom told me I was seriously mis medicated since I in norm do not react like that. Anger/Rage can cause strokes in a person if left to master the emotions. I enjoyed your article
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Vickie

Again, I enjoy your writing. Divorce is difficult even in the "best" situations. My personal feeling is that to spend so much time and anger and negative on the situation that cannot be changed is a waste, and also gives POWER to the one that has hurt YOU! Move forward, even if you have to fool yourself for the time being...Do not speak negatively about him/her, or any of it...just smile and that speaks VOLUMES... I remain "friends" with ex's..all of them! don't laugh.. divorce doesn't have to be just "husbands/wives"...divorce can often be friendships, relationships, jobs, etc.. Stress breeds contempt...and vice versa.. You are right on in this article. Lindalaw