This article is a short synopsis of how I wish people would treat diabetics who are in crisis.

My feelings on "How to handle a diabetic" KJ JACOBS There have been many times in the last 33 1/2 years as an insulin dependent diabetic when people who were trying to help me, have actually made things worse. You should NEVER ask a diabetic if everything is okay with them. During an insulin reaction (low blood sugar), there isn't enough sugar in the brain for them to evaluate the situation. Most of the time, they will tell you everything is fine. It is at this point that the person who might have noticed a change in behavior, will walk away. Any type of personality change, change in their tone of voice, absence of talking, or just avoiding people, is enough to be concerned. If you must ask them a question, ask them one that requires extensive thought processes to answer. If it is a question that they should be able to answer quickly and they don't, there is a problem. You should calmly tell this person that you have noticed a change in their behavior and would like to check their blood sugar. If the diabetic can do it, then fine. I have been able to check mine as low as 35, but sometimes would have difficulty locating the machine. There is no reason to call an ambulance if this person is conscious. Many times if a straw is used in a can of pop or juice, instead of just giving the diabetic the can, there is little resistance. I have no scientific reason for this, other than the fact that it is perceived less aggressive than pushing the can in their face and telling them to drink. I have fought many people many times because in my mind, someone is trying to get me to drink a can of pop with sugar in it and I know that I shouldn't drink it. Calm, kind words will get more satisfactory responses from the diabetic who may be in crisis. A little sugar goes a long way as well. There have been times that people have forced me to eat and drink sugar laden foods to the point that I have had to battle the disease from the other end of the spectrum later. Which is an abnormal elevated blood sugar reading. Nothing is more frustrating. Hopefully, this will give more people information to be able to help their friends and family during diabetic crisis situations . I would be glad to answer any questions. I may not know all of the answers, but after 33 years of living with this disease, I'm sure I could be of assistance. Last but not least, I would attempt to locate the answer, if I didn't know. Blessings, KJ Jacobs, RN, BSN