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What Age Does Sex Increase For Most Women and What Age Does It Slow Down? 6/24/2013 10:32:47 AM
At What Age Does Sex Increase For Most Women And What Age Does It Slow Down?
By author: Mrs. Jimmie Dismuke
This is a really good question. I will talk about myself, I have been highly sexed since the first time I had a taste of it with my then ex-husband at age nineteen. Prior to him I was a tomboy teaching my younger brothers how to box. My sexual drive increased over the next several years. My ex told me that all I thought about was sex I was then in my mid twenty’s. I had two children at the time with him. I worked as a stock broker at a Bank and I took care of the home for example; cooked meals from scratch kept a clean home and took care of my ex and our children. Today I am older and my drive is higher than ever, I love it and my husband takes excellent care of me sexually and in every way imaginable. My drive is just as high as it was when I was nineteen years old. I am always ready and so is my husband we love it for real. I plan on having good and exciting sex with my husband until the day of Jesus return for His children.I believe it is a mental state of mind when women allow their sexual drive to slow down because of their age. I have heard women say at the age of forty to seventy they could live the rest of their lives without having sex again. I personally think that is a waste because having sex helps to keep both men and women healthy. Some women have said they can satisfy their own sexual needs with sexual toys to stimulate them. They don’t want a man sweating on them or cum inside of them. Then there are women who just don’t like it because they feel as though it takes too much of an effort just for several minutes of pleasure. To me they are just a bunch of excuses because when women are not in full control of the relationship then they don’t put forth much of an effort to keep the sexual desire going.
I think most women are in their thirties when their sex drive increases. I have heard of women say that sex is better at forty. Whatever age or level the increase of sex happen it is important not to put a time limit on it just because you feel like you should slow down because you think you are too old to keep enjoying sex. There are a lot of women who will convince themselves around the age of fifty that something is wrong that they no longer have the drive for sex anymore. Women kill their drive in their mind and in their body they literally shut it down and dare their husband to cheat on them just because they refuse to have sex with him anymore. Then there is the woman that will encourage their husband to go find another women to satisfy him because she no longer want to have sex with him or anyone else because her drive for sex is gone and her body is just tired.
I believe they have pills or something on the market to help women increase their sexual drive but you hear them come up with such excuses as I don’t want to take anything that could later on cause other problems in their body, I say; yeah right.
Women are kind of crazy they get turned off with a man’s semen inside of them feeling dirty. I think some women have been raised by their mother’s to think that sex is a job that they do in order to make their husband happy. Some think that when they decide to have sex it is so that they can have a baby for their husband. You have women that only believe that laying down on their back is the only position for a woman and that any enhancement as far as kissing, sucking, biting on the nipples and having a man go down on them is considered dirty and nasty they were taught that decent women don’t do that kind of stuff. These women will not give their husband head because they believe if their mouth was made for kissing on the lips only and not to suck on a man’s penis this can cause a decrease in a woman’s sexual desire because there is nothing there to keep it going (jump in and jump out).
To sum this all up our sexual drive should not be limited because we are turning forty, fifty, sixty, seventy, eighty, ninety what does age have to do with it, seriously. Women should do everything in their power to increase their sexual appetite and not let a beautiful thing like having sex just wither away as though it never existed. They have invented so many things to help women’s sexual drive increased if it doesn’t come naturally. The words that come out of our mouth are powerful. When we speak a thing we can cause it to happen for or against us. In other words when we say we (women) say they don’t have those desires anymore then our body reacts and begin to shut down telling the mind that they can do without it which is a trick of the enemy. My life is fulfilled and I will continue to allow my sex drive to continue to increase with my husband; I simply love it. I guess I can’t relate to women that stop having sex from the age of forty and plus. I know it is all in their head what woman in her right mind would deny herself of the pleasure of sex?
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