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Where are the Leaders who know how to Lead?
2/9/2013 12:36:58 PM


We know all about abuse of power on a grand scale: Hitler, Nixon, Osama Bin Laden. But what about all those smaller, every day misuses of authority we endure? Too many managers, teachers, group leaders, etc. take care of themselves first. They don't think about or don't care about how their troops will be affected by their decisions. Most of the time it involves something small. We say it doesn't matter. But a lifetime of little wrongdoings add up. I once worked for an elementary school principal who said he would always get my side of the story if anyone at school ever told him bad things about me. Then on four separate occasions, he had his snitch run to him with something they heard me say. The first three times the snitch told what I had said completely out of context. The fourth time it was an outright lie. But each time the principal swallowed the snitch's story hook line and sinker--and blamed me accordingly. After that last time, I went to the principal, reminded him of his promise to me, and demanded that it stop. If it hadn't I would have filed a grivance against him. This guy also played favorites, something else people in charge shouldn't do.
Anyone in charge, even if only one person reports to them, should consider how their actions affect that person, not just themselves.
One time while substitute teaching for a particular teacher, I was not allowed to sign any of the students dicipline sheets for bad behavior. An earlier sub had written on one of that teacher's student's sheets that they thought the child should be put on medication. Subs aren't supposed to do that. The parent got mad and bawled out the principal. That principal didn't want to deal with parents--part of their job--so they took the only disciplinary tool a sub has away from all that teacher's future subs. As a result, that sub job was one of the worst I've had in almost three years; the kids knew they had carte blanche for the day. They took full advantage of it.
As a teacher, I try to consider how my actions affect my students, not just me. I'm not perfect, but I try to be unselfish when I make decisions. I think everyone in authority should do this. We owe it to our kids by setting the example, so we can train them to do the same thing someday. It's about all of us, not just ourselves. How how you been mistreated by people in power? Large or small? Please respond.


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