When the tall and beautiful model was asked about her love relationship with Dudley Moore she said, "Dudley had no pre-conceived idea of what a women should be."

Take a moment to think about what she might have meant. If Dudley didn't think a women should be a certain way, that means he approached every woman as an individualized personality with no obligations or dutys on her part, to be taken for granted.

Dudley didn't think a woman had to automatically be a cook, dishwasher, maid, or servant. They could be, but they didn't have to be. They could be themselves and Dudley could discover on his own what that woman was about, what her individuality was, without fitting her into some particular role or image that he had of a woman. He just let her be free to be herself and enjoyed that.

It seems to me that if he could attract such a fine woman as Susan Anton for that reason, it would be good to remember not to have a preconceived idea of what your Bond girl is. Just let her be what she is, an individualized spiritual being, going through a human evolution, just like you.