The song writer was right in saying,
"What the world needs is love." But
love is not enough to ignite love
making in a world that is in need of,
but is deficient in, love making.
What has happened to love making?
Love making is an art, not a science.
What I am about to say about love making
I didn't hear through the grapevine.
People from backgrounds as diverse as the
demogaphics of the typography of America
shared their stories with me about thier failed
attempts and frustration with love making.
For some their attempts at love making were
perfunctory or duty-driven.
For others their attempts at love making were
something of an ordeal or without fun.
Attempts at love making for others involved
virtual sex, masturbation, homosexuality,
lesbianism and sex perversion practices.
Love making requires time, both quantitative
and qualitative time.
In the midst of the hustling and bustling of
daily living for many people and their
near-obsession and fidgeting with technology
gadgets that include the computer, cell phone,
television and music machines, little time is
left to engage in foreplay, caressing, touching
and stroking or to be intimate with another
person. Instant sex and sex on demand are the
rule, not the exception.
Intimacy requires compassion and commitment.
To these add being present, listening, tender-
heartedness, and a hundred-and-one ways to
express kindness. Love making is more than
copulation and orgasmic relief.
Even love is not enough for love making.
But it sure helps a lot.
What a person needs to know about love
making he will not learn from reading self-
help books, listening to lectures, or
marticulating at Harvard.
With the inquisitivenes and curosity of
a child observe non-human animals,
birds, and other living creatures. When I
was a boy living on a farm I learned much
about love making from observing horses
and mules. More than I learned from humans.
Allow creatures in your environment,
especially non-domestic ones, to teach
you about love making.
Love making is spirit-driven and
transcendent. It provides a person with
the orgasmic experience that nurtures
a healthy lifestyle.
The lost art of love making need not go
the way of dinosaurs. It can be discovered
and enjoyed.
I wrote this novel several years ago, I self published and never had it to sell. I have decided to rewrite it and hope to get it published within a few months for people to be able to buy. I had a few copies and gave them to a few family members and
In this heartfelt romantic memoir, Harry and Elizabeth share their passions and feelings about the poignant events that brought them back together after being divorced and estranged for almost twenty years. Filled with emotion, suspense, and humor --
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