My Aunt Sally Rose was a WW2 mom who lost her first son ...
Always of a cheery disposition with a pretty smile, my great Aunt Sally, my grandma's younger sister, was a lady whose English accent attracted me to her.
Her husband, Uncle Dick Rose, had passed away a few years before. His was the first funeral I ever attended, quite remarkable actually because of his open casket, ordinarily not a Jewish funerary custom.
Her house was a wonderous place, an all brick bungelow on the south side of St. Louis, in which as young children we spent a fair deal of time. It was a virtual shrine to her late son, Clifford, who had been killed at the Battle of the Bulge.
I remember his picture atop Aunt Sally's fireplace mantle, a handsome Errol Flynn type, dashing with a pencil thin moustache and outfitted in his cleanly pressed and starched U.S Army uniform.
As a child, I didn't then, but I do now understand Aunt Sally's veneration of her Clifford, and she took a patriotic pride in his utimate sacrifice and proudly displayed a sign on her front door that she was a mom whose son had given his all for our country.
One other thing that endeared me to Aunt Sally's house was that she had a small framed photo of my mom and dad on one of her end tables. I couldn't fathom why but it did make me feel good.
She never felt safe at home as a young girl, and didn't understand why when she finally escaped she wasn't safe in the big wide world either ...effectively jumping out of the frying pan into the fire!
Join me as we travel together on the road called "Aging." I will be sharing my personal experiences with you and offer ideas on how we can better navigate the complex byways of our older years. Grief, healing, generations, ancestors, and more.
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