Love Knows No Short Cuts
As Infant
Accepting was simple
Touch
Smell
Taste
See and hear
Soft was soft
Smiles were smiles
Kisses were kisses
As Child
It was…different
Am I cared for?
Am I really liked?
Am I loved…really?
As Adolescent
It was…Hell
If I do this well, will I be--?
Why did they invent mirrors, anyway?
Why don’t I love even myself?
Will I ever find IT?
As adult
It was…a disaster
I knew what IT was
Why didn’t they?
I knew what IT needed
Why couldn’t I find more?
I learned IT was all misread
Why didn’t others?
As a Being
I’m listening to petals open
I’m seeing noise made quiet
I’m smelling transcendent breezes
I’m tasting fragrances awakened
I’m touching the infant within
What if everything just is
Sans definition
For it own sake?
Consider the…
Who and what of love
In a world where marriage convention
affords little emotional purchase
and commitment outside the institution weighs heavy
on the traditional
Panicked love brokers of halo driven missteps
mount their marbled pedestals of self-deceit
and preach their continuum for tried and proven failure
to those of vacuous preference
Who might they be
these carnivorous angels of imagination
these habitual slight-of-hand love merchants
in three-piece suits
and vestments of supernatural protection
whose power of persuasion beckons you buy
into the promised sacred memories of tomorrow?
What mutation of species thrives on the suffocation of will
who bless the innocent to sacred prisons of the flesh
where long-term pain of born-again ignorance
is sanctified in the form of perpetual lineage?
And who are those who reject such iconoclastic relics of yesterday
and seek rather the oft-missed nature of love
that which proffers life’s loving connections as born of fragrances
from bouquets of unpollinated flowers
visions of untrammeled dreams
and the concertos of atonal memory
tethered to a cloudless ether of joy and innocence?
We ponder and ask…
Is there a romance of life
a ripple of peace and rest
as storms fade behind us
and nature's wash cleanses the residual wounds of the past?
Does the blue of calm meet the red of passion with cautious beckoning?
Are we but delusional in our praise of the heart's ceaseless trumpeting of yesterday's echoes?
And what of this creature comfort that oft times is mistaken for love
can it be that mind over matter is reality's checkmate for careless games of infatuation
where the romance of love proves to be only dreams mistaken for consciousness
bringing aloneness begging of forgiveness?
For truth be told
romance is life
a lyrical perspective
allowing the music of winged intonations and soulful protocols
to harmonize with the bouquet of smiles that permeates the symphony of living
where the clouds release sunlight
storms arrest our complacency
and cascades of past emotions take their rightful place
in the now of yesterday
the present of today
and the magic of tomorrow
What is romance
if not all of nature
all of the imagination
and forever the rapture of love
in all its wanting
in all its impatience
in all its unknowns
and forever in all its undiscovered self-perpetuating enigma
but oh how sweet its reality
Perhaps the universal answer is to…
Love...Each Day
To gather love's petals of laughter
its dewdrops of sadness
its rays of being is to be
somewhere love needs to be...Each Day
But for love to turn the corner of life
without looking both ways
is to leave behind the wisdom of flowers in bloom
about to become the re-cycling of life
the clouds of insecurity
not yet aware of their purpose
that awaken your every morning
and your learned caution that guides love to
be where it needs to be...Each Day
Oh to be that cycle
the cycle that mystery sometimes shrouds with mist
to give drink to the rose beneath the cover
To know, to feel, the sound and sight of discovery
to be aware each time it affords the chance
to approach the unknown valleys beyond the corner
for that somewhere love needs to be... Each Day
Love remains poised for the beginning of light's assent
that will become days
becoming life's time capsule of patience
awaiting where it must avail itself
So while serving the winds of time
let not our sometime ill choices
go without your water and soil
to prepare the inevitable warning thorns
that will guide us to full potential
For although blooming comes often
one's petals unfold only until such weight makes weary
the moment's sustainment of joy
the moment's perpetual rapture
the tenuous moment of love awaiting
the next somewhere it needs to be...Each Day
Like I said,
Love Knows No Short Cuts.
When we love ourselves we no longer have to worry about whether someone else loves us or not.
I like the way you describe how religious dogma has entered our society, forcing a lovely marriage like one man and one woman Adam and Eve with their absolutely perfect marriage and they're wonderfully behaving sons, Cain and Abel.
My marriage vows lasted only as long as she wished to be with me so I have found love without marriage and what that means in our lockstep society still in the grasp of religion rather than what love really means.
Ron