IN YOUR HOME…….  

 

After being raised up in a very dysfunctional family, I decided to write this book, after raising my grandson.  Because the proof is in the pudding. 

I am truly motivated and inspired by my grandson.  Whom I’ve raised since two years, in writing this book.  I never thought I would have such an insight as to why our prison and jails are filled with young Black men and women until  he came to live with me and some research.  

Coming up in a dysfunctional  household, and the psychological problems, I have, I soon realized that I didn’t want this for my grandson.  He need mental, physical, emotional, and verbal stability.  With God’s Divine intervention, this is what was rewarded to my grand son.  

Like many other young grandmothers, I would have loved to had a steady love affair, or even a marriage, without all the drama.  But I wondered how was I going to do this.  I needed to raise up this child so that he will respect me.  But I could not do it with a lot of people in the house.  Especially not with a man in the house over us.  I knew this was not going to work….I‘d come up with a “step man“ in the household.  Truly there was no respect in the home.  It seemed that every weekend, the men in rural Mississippi went pass “wild” with outside women or another man‘s wife.  Everybody was either having a baby by the next door neighbor’s husband or a well known man in and/or around the community.  As a child,  I would observe a lot of indecent things grown up would do.  Most to of them were married, but they were 

town…I didn‘t like what he did to and my mother.  , life style, and the mental state I wals left with, research and watching and raising my grand son.  knowing what mental state, I was left with after the facts

I did some research….

The Step Affair starts with a non custodoium parents is in the midst of a home intrusion.  Disrespecting 

It starts with your mate.  The one person you meet out on a date…..Who  you decide to love and or share love with over your children….Parents who have young children should revert back to the old traditions, when our mothers use to meet their love affairs in the bushes in rural routes in different states.  This