It's funny how some people become more like we
envision them to be. For example, if I wake up thinking
my wife is an angel and focus on what good things she
has done for me in the past, she usually acts like an
angel the rest of the day. I could also just as easily
focus on the things she did not do for me and think of
her as a negative person. If I chose this road then
somehow she will act in a much more negative manner
the rest of the day. So I have learned that how my mind
chooses to focus about a person's personality
can make or ruin my day.
It's hard for a person to be nasty to you when you start
complimenting them about their looks, their talents, or
the way they dress etc. On the other hand, if you
chose to focus of their negative traits you just may get
that person angry or resentful and a whole different
person comes out of the same shell.
Try this out and see if it makes a positive diffence in your day.
