Wouldn't it be great if you could talk to your partner about anything?
If you could discuss your plans and share your dreams openly like friends?
If you could look inside their thoughts and know where they stand on the hard issues?
If you could ask them the questions in this book?
You're Getting Married Soon... Now What? is a recommended read for all couples who are planning to take their relationships to the next level. Many couples forget to talk about the situations they will encounter, leaving them unprepared and unaware of how their partners may react. Many have unrealistic expectations which are not based on reality, and that results to disappointment and frustrations. Feelings which lead to contempt, until one day you realize that the love you once felt... is gone.
This book will not give you answers. It will get you started on the questions. Help you better understand the person you'll be sharing life with. Who they are now... and what you can expect from them when you're hit by life's challenges.
Knowing where your partner stands can give you the assurance you need to face your future with more confidence. You'll know what to expect, and what's expected of you.
No wishful thinking.
No baseless hopes and dreams.
Just love and the comfort in knowing exactly who's walking life with you.
Get a copy. Start the conversation.
Excerpt
A NOTE FROM EEVA:
Getting married is the happiest moment of a woman’s life and the most important decision a man is going to make. Some might disagree, but you gotta admit, it’s a life-defining move. A smile automatically appears on people’s faces when they hear that two lovers have finally decided to tie the knot and be together forever. In fact, there are very few events in our lives more celebrated than marriage. It’s a happy time, filled with love, hope and good intentions.
Since you’re reading this, let me say congratulations on your engagement! You must be ecstatic… and nervous. This is an important event and you want so much for it to work out perfectly. It’s normal to get jittery about matters that are important. If you didn’t feel apprehensive at all, I’d be wondering about your motive for getting married.
Now, this is not a plan-your-wedding kind of book. I know your mind is busy with plans for your wedding, however, the concern of this book is not your wedding, but your MARRIAGE. But this is not just for engaged or married couples, it’s for all couples in a serious relationship.
Think of this book as a checklist of things that couples often overlook while they’re caught up in the heat of being in love… this is a reality check. My aim is to help you and your loved one get used to talking about the small stuff… the hard stuff, and prepare for the life ahead of you. I love to see couples getting along like two sensible adults and not fighting or bickering like kids! I love it when love prevails.
I’m a hopeless romantic… yet, I’m also realistic. I believe that hoping for the best is a good and positive attitude, but so is doing something to help make your dreams come true. If wishes are enough to make things happen, we’d have everything we’ve ever desired. Wishes have a better chance of coming true when you know exactly what you want and do what it takes to get there.
As you read the following pages, just remember… couples who really love each other can talk about anything and everything in the safety of each other’s love. But first, you have to start the conversation.
I share these words with you in love and peace.
Eeva
Professional Reviews
Getting Married? Read This!
By Carol Traulsen on June 17, 2015
Format: Kindle Edition
Eeva Lancaster's book, You're Getting Married Soon...Now What? is a smart, practical guide to the questions and situations that most married couples will face. Ms Lancaster urges open, clear communication on such varied topics as money matters, division of labor or chores in the home, jobs, children, and even your sex life. For those who are unsure of where to begin she provides a excellent list of questions on each topic that are sure to spark a healthy discussion, all in a non-judgmental, friendly tone. I have been married for twenty-five years and it's nice to see a practical guide to "being married," that's not just about flower arrangements and bridal gowns. Thanks Eeva!
Straightforward and insightful
By Ava Coffier on April 1, 2015
Format: Kindle Edition
Eeva breaks down the conversations that should be discussed before enduring the life-long commitment of marriage. There is a lot involved in marriage and understanding what you are committing to is a huge part of determining success.
From the simple everyday hassles, to uncomfortable topics, Eeva provides advice to approach the problem efficiently. The theme of this book is communication, and that is a huge part of what keeps a marriage strong. The topics were diverse and real, because sometimes it’s the little things and being upfront about expectations and roles inside the marriage is a great way to avoid conflict.
I loved Eeva’s active voice, it kept me interested and was just long enough to get across a very powerful point without going on and on. Eeva provided very insightful examples to her points that keeps the reader interested and amused. The pictures included were capturing and added character to her points. This book is a definite must-read before tying the knot, especially if you want to avoid a lot of unnecessary fights! Five stars!
A Great Guide to the Tough Questions of Marriage
ByAllan L Mannon September 9, 2015
Format: Kindle Edition
Eeva lays out the necessary questions for young (and old) couples need to be asking themselves and others. It takes the difficult topics - money, ambitions, sex, etc. and lays out a logical set of questions to guide couples through the discussions they need to have.
This is a quick read, but full of insightful information, requiring the reader to come back often to absorb everything. I particularly related to the "red hot button" issues that can set off your partner without you knowing why.
I would recommend this book as a must-read if you plan on tying the knot. Go ahead, ask the tough questions. You'll have a much richer marriage if you do.
“Being a couple yet free is our next challenge on the evolutionary ladder. This book successfully helps us unravel the myths that block that achievement. It does it with warmth, with readability, and with balance. It recreates everyday problems and
