Amazon Have this book signed by the author! Review Portions of this book! Category:  Relationships Publisher: Career Assurance Press ISBN-10:  1881558045 Type: Non-Fiction Pages: 260 Copyright: Jan 1 1998 Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers is dedicated to love partners who are deeply committed to the idea of passionate monogamy, fidelity and having lots of fun in the bedroom! This book will help you learn the art of creative sexual expression, openly and fully, with words and deeds. It will assist you in having better, more frequent, loving sex with 100% pleasure and 0% guilt. Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers will help you create the freedom to seek the highest possible expression of sexual love. It unlocks the secrets of physical pleasure. You will find LoveNotes for men only and for women only. Larry James is a gifted teacher who shares his inspired insight with clarity, style and good taste. He is a specialist in matters of the Heart. In Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers you will learn. . . How to give permission to be deliciously naughty and nice to transform your bedroom boredom to passionate bliss! Ways to overcome natural inhibitions about sharing your secret sexual desires and fantasies! How to master the magic of foreplay and be a connoisseur of sexual spontaneity! How to develop enough trust to express your love in unrestrained, erotic ways! How to reinvent and recharge your sexual relationship to be able to openly receive your partner's expressions of love! Excerpt The first rule of making love is to present a body that is tastefully clean! Become a clean sex machine. Take personal hygiene seriously. There is no greater turn-off than offensive body odors from partners who have yet to learn to offer their bodies as if on a silver platter, ready to be devoured sexually by their partner. An unclean body can spoil the mood very quickly. Shower or bathe in scented water. Use a fragrant shampoo. To make sure unpleasant odors do not return, use an unscented deodorant. Dab a splash of your favorite cologne or perfume on or near the parts of your anatomy that might be visited by your lover. If you smoke, don't smoke before making love or better yet, quit. Kissing someone who smokes is like licking the bottom of an ashtray. Yuck! Stay clear of garlic or onions before connecting with your lover. Brush your teeth. Use mouthwash. Make your whole body suitable for the sexual feast. . . . To paraphrase comedian Jerry Seinfeld, "Women need a reason to make love; men only need a place to have sex!" Perhaps there is a time for each bias. Some men feel that any position for sex is okay as long as her head doesn't block the TV. You will never receive the sexual satisfaction you need to connect on a far deeper level if you cannot be in the moment, having reasons and creating interesting places to make love. . . not just have sex. Making love requires sensitivity to the endeavor! It demands focus and purpose. Having only sex may give you the sexual release you need, but it lacks some of the main ingredients you need to maintain a healthy love relationship. Needing only a place to have sex doesn't communicate the kind of love a woman needs to have a reason to make love. Face it, they both bring pleasure of a different variety. However, it increases the odds of having your relationship work when you can give the majority of your most intimate moments together undivided attention, expressing love in intentional, meaningful and loving ways. That's "making love!"

Dr. John Gray, Ph.D., author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, says. . .
Tastefully written, Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers is specific, practical, often poetic and rich with creative ideas and inspirational insights.

Laura Corn, author of 101 Nights of Grrreat Sex, says. . .
Laced with provocative ways to communicate and stimulating ideas that excite, Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers belongs on your nightstand! Read before bedtime and get ready for Grrreat Sex!

Dr. Larry Losoncy, Ph.D., Family Therapist, says. . .
Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers is another carefully written, challenging and beautiful must-read book from Larry James. Lovers will find inspiration blended with encouragement that loving sex is worth working at and many suggestions about how to do it!