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KAE DJ Publishing & Production
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Category:
Parenting
Publisher: KAE DJ Publishing & Production
Type: Non-Fiction
Pages: 160
Copyright: May 7, 2021
ISBN-13: 9781734818338
Price: $5.99 (eBook)
Pastor Kathy's DNA approach (Do Not Abandon) helps every member of the family no matter which circumstance they find themselves in, learn to appreciate the fun, frustrations and uphill battles they will face throughout life.
In “Whose Child Is This?” Pastor Kathy recounts her first-hand journey into the realm of parenting. Giving birth to two biological daughters, adopting two sons, being foster mother to an additional thirty-one children, and helping countless other parents recapture their love for their own children and those they were entrusted to love.
¬As parents you have rights and responsibilities. You need the tips Kathy shares on how to work through issues of rebellion, temperaments, gang affiliation, sexual assault, incarceration, abuse in the educational system, church relations, and much more.
In this book Kathy freely shares her personal parenting voyage and the escapades of other parents. You will without a doubt be encouraged and find the strength you need to parent with success.
Excerpt
Children: Everybody wants them until nobody wants them. The truth is they are either our rich vanilla ice cream over that fabulous dark chocolate brownie or they’re our “I can’t sleep GAS” at night after eating too many of our favorite beans and not enough cornbread. We want them when we’re ready for them, and even when we secretly wish they were someone else’s child. We want them when they make us proud, and we don’t want them when their voices become deep and they get loud. We want them to want us, when wanting us is far from what they want or need. We want them to make us proud by winning that third grade spelling bee and to become the MVP football quarterback in the most prestigious university around.
We want them after we’ve achieved all our own personal goals and we’ve become financially stable enough in our eyes to have them. We want them even if we thought we waited too late to have them, or the doctors advised us not to have them. We want them to love us, and we want others to love the fact that we wanted them even when they don’t understand why in the world we weren’t smart enough to wrap it up or at least to pop a pill to keep from getting pregnant. We want them when we secretly don’t want them, but they are here!
When it comes to raising children, timing is especially important! In fact, when we look back, we are not sure how they got here (yes, we know how!), but this one thing we can be sure of: they are ours from the cradle to the grave. No one and nothing can ever erase the fact that they crossed our path to make a difference in the path they will travel for the rest of their lives. While this book isn’t an individual
operating manual for your child particularly (since no child ever comes with one), it’s my prayer that it will encourage you to keep the faith and never give up on your ability to parent well though the blessings and heartaches of parenthood. In the pages to follow, you’ll find clear, biblical, hope-filled answers for some of the very questions you and so many of your relatives, friends, and neighbors are asking right now about parenting. As we examine a diverse cluster of children, together we’ll discover ways to strengthen our relationship with them through helpful tips that let you understand them and yourself.
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