Every relationship is built upon some foundation. The composition of our foundations range from our experiences to any other factor that has granted us conviction about life. Unfortunately, no two persons react the same way to the same experience. They learn different things and see things differently too. Now, when these two come together in a relationship, initially attraction plays a big role in dousing tension. But as attraction fades reality emerges. Unfortunately by then, the couple may have rushed to the alter or made some major emotional commitments. The end result is not always desirable.

This book discusses these issues and how you can lay a great foundation, despite these differences. The idea of this book came after the author had series of conversation with successful married couples, whose love life has spanned from 30 to 55 years. he discovered that, although these couples didn't know themselves, they all had something in common when they met each other. They also had something in common that helped them weather the storm. The conversations were not aimed at compiling a book. However, the author saw the need to share what he has learnt. There is a lot to learn from the author's experience and the experience of people whom he had conversations with.