Kindle Edition Amazon Gemini Phoenix Publications LLC Category:  Self-Help Publisher: Gemini Phoenix Publications LLC ISBN-10:  0989140300 Type: Non-Fiction Pages: 38 Copyright: Mar 2013 ISBN-13: 9780989140300 This book helps women to know themselves and their worth. It will help them figure out some things and reasons of the male behavior.  Ladies why are you always in the club, leaving your man at home or to do whatever makes him happy? If he's not complaining about you being gone all the time, he's probably not thinking about you or enjoying his freedom to be with the next chick. As soon as that guy approaches you asking, "Where your man is and why are you here alone?" you are leaving room for drama. Take care of home first before the one you return to is empty and you are left alone. If what you have at home isn't all that you need, stop playing games and move on. Stop wasting his time and yours wondering what you can do to make your relationship better. Your struggle is with yourself because you don't love and know yourself enough to understand your own worth. Take a walk with me through this brief journey and learn how to find a soul mate within yourself first and then the right man will find you! Excerpt You cannot attempt a real relationship if you have low self-esteem, because jealousy soon follows. You will think that every woman in the world wants your man and start accusing him of wanting them back. The truth is, you want women to want your man. If they don't want him, why do you? When you go to the store and look over fruit to purchase, do you just pick up the first thing you see, or do you carefully review its qualities? We as women, tend to do the same with men from the first encounter to several down the road. Constant test are what we expect from men, but we forget that we do the same damn thing. We are always trying to catch them in lies so we can prove ourselves right about them. What the hell sense does that make though? We are always looking for the bad in a man like we already knew it was there. Doesn't that sound like we are setting ourselves up for failure? Ladies, take Erika Badu's words and lyrics to heart: "Bag lady, you gone hurt your back; carrying all dem bags like that." Stop!!!

A Must Read
I LOVE IT!!!! You stepped on my toes and now i need you to get off them. lol. You are SPOT ON with all the analogies. There is so much truth to what you said. This book show how you have grown as a woman, Many women, young girls will really need to read this. YOU got a winner here. This is my fav part of the book.. "Please keep yourself in good health at all times and get that coochie checked out at least once a year. If you are more sexually active with different partners, get it checked on a regular basis. The most embarrassing thing is for a man to be down there ready for a full course meal of filet mignon and get the seafood special of the day.. "

On Point & On Time
Dyphia, you have done it again. This guide was THE TRUTH!!! The book brought out a couple of valid points concerning the areas of getting and keeping a man's attention on you. My favorite thing in the book was when you said, "Focus on you!" We get so caught up trying to please our men that sometimes we lose our sense of self. I was really feeling that statement. Thanks again, and hopefully, you will make a Part 2.

This Girl Has Talent
All I can say is take notes. The women's guide to finding and keeping a man. Ladies beware this book is real. Splendid Author and she keeps me on edge and wanting more with every book. If you're looking for a good read get this book, looking for a answer to your man problems, get this book thinking of a great gift, give this book.