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|  | | Escaping the Hijackal Trap: Vol. 1: The Truth About Hijackals
Chronically difficult people are crazy-making. Dr. Shaler coined the term, Hijackals™, for them. Hijackals are people who hijack relationships for their own purposes while relentlessly scavenging them for power, status, and control.
If you are with a Hijackal, you need very specific insights, skills, and strategies. Their behaviors are crazy-making, but in the beginning, you see only joy, wonder, love, and light. br />
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Why? Because they are chamelions who know just what you want, and they give it to you. It is after they have trapped you that everything changes, and you start second-guessing yourself, and questioning your sanity. br />
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Get this help right now. Read Volume 1 right away, and get your life back. | |  | | KAIZEN for COUPLES: Smart Steps to Save & Strengthen Your Relationship
Whether you are currently in a long-term relationship, beginning one that could be, or wanting to ensure you don't create old, unhealthy patterns in a new one, the concepts in KAIZEN for COUPLES, will help you to unfold love, trust and intimacy in new, healthy ways.
Even if your relationship seems distant, rocky, broken, or even hopeless, you can learn and implement the building blocks to create blame-free, game-free, non-manipulative relationships. That's what you want because that's what makes you feel loved, respected, trusted and valued.
KAIZEN for COUPLES gives you more than ten invaluable insights that can help you turn your stumbling blocks into stepping stones, and come closer and closer to each other.
BIG TIP:
Consciously set aside several times each week to talk with your partner for a half hour. Do i | |  | | Keep It in Mind: Memorable Messages for Staying on Track
The road to success can be filled with detours and tempting parking places. Dr. Shaler gives you a map to avoid those!
Dr. Rhoberta Shaler gives you short, practical, insightful messages for removing roadblocks and obstacles from your path. She draws you a simple map that will keep you on track and focused on creating success on your own terms.br />
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"NOW!" is the magic word of success. That road paved with good intentions is litttered with words like "tomorrow," "next week," "later," "sometime," or "someday." says Dr. Shaler. And, then she asks, "Why not now?"
This book will help you turn your "someday" i | |  | | Optimize Your Day: Practical Wisdom for Optimal Living
Renew your perspective. Change your habits. Create the life you want. This book will help you create a life based on what is significant, important and valuable to you.
"Are you sending yourself more negative messages than positive ones? How do you speak to and about yourself in your mind? br />
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Try this: Only say things about yourself that you want to be true...even the things you only say in your mind.br />
It will make a tremendous difference in your energy, focus, and perspective. It will certainly change your relationships."
~ Rhoberta Shaler, PhDbr />
The Relationship Help Doctorbr />
| |  | | Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up
Soul Solitude offers the missing peace and pieces that make you whole. If you know in your heart there is more to life than you are experiencing now, the principles in this book will break the unseen chains of limitation that are holding you back.
You are so much more than your past, your circumstances, and what the expectations of others allow you to be. Soul Solitude will gently, but irrevocably, awaken you to the possibilities and wonder of your life, and to unclaimed joy.
By breaking through the toxis and dysfunctional paradigms that you inherited, adopted or adapted, Soul Solitude helps you step into the gifts and mystery intended just for you. | |  | | The Hijackal Trap: Dealing with Passive-Aggressive People
Passive-aggressive behavior is crazy-making. Difficult people often display passive-aggression, among other things. Learn how to recognize and deal with it to improve your relationship.
Passisve-aggressive people try hard not to create a conflict when they are asked to do something. They say yes, knowing that it is unlikely that they want to, or will, do it. br />
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Then, when you confront them after they have not done it, they turn the tables on you, and say something like, "Don't you think I have better things to do than errands for you? " or, the classic, "Oh, I completely forgot." br />
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This ebook provides specific strategies for responding to passive-aggressive behavior. It can save your sanity, because passive-agg | |  | | What You Pay Attention to Expands
Having trouble staying motivated to achieve your goals? This little book is the fuel you need.
Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, opens up the world of personal accountability and positive thought in ways that make simple, practical sense. We all tend to run off course when "life gets in the way." Dr. Shaler's wise, direct, and often humorous insights show you how to stay focused and on track to create success on your own terms. | |  | | Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work
Dr. Shaler's no nonsense insights and plain truths about how to "play nicely together in the company sandbox" give you the skills to speak up confidently, teach people how to treat you, and get what you need and want.
If you:
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li>head for the elevator when conflict erupts/li>
li>wish you knew how to tell your boss you're not happy...without getting fired/li>
li>would rather stay home and lose pay than face that rhinoceros in the next cubicle one more day/li>
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then this book is for you. Great insights into improving your communication, conflict management, anger management, negotiation and general collaboration skills are all included here.
Jim Cathcart of www.RelationshipSelling.com says "This book belongs in every business library."&n |
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