It's important that we clean out the energy of our last relationship before beginning a new one

Feng Shui Tips for Love

Feng Shui for love


Are you ready for love in your life? Have you made space in your life for a loving relationship? Most of us carry baggage from one relationship to another and it's important that we clean out the energy of our last relationship before beginning a new one. To clear the energy of past relationships make sure that you have gone through your home and let go of all reminders of negative energy. Items and keepsakes from past relationships are sometimes filled with dense energy and need to be cleansed by running water over them, sitting them in the sun, or even more important, thrown away or gifted to Good Will.
Pictures, video, clothing, are all items to look through and see if there is energy clinging to them which would carry into a new relationship.

A good way to clear energy from yourself is to write down what you have learned about you from past relationships. Be honest about you and your lessons. Our past relationships are great teachers about our true nature, needs and desires.

Smudging is a wonderful way to clear your aura. If you have sage or sweetgrass, or herbs in a shell use these and move from the feet to the top of your head, letting the smoke clear and cleanse, bringing balance and joy.
If you don’t have smudging material incense will do as well.

Shower with intention; as you enter the shower state outloud that you are releasing the worry, fear, anger, uncertainty of the past and moving into the present moment. You are allowing the water to wash and cleanse you and bring you into a state of bliss and openness for love and relationships.

Take a look at your wardrobe, do you need to jazz it up a bit so you will feel your best? If so invest in a few outfits that you really feel wonderful in. This isn’t about fads or styles; it’s about how you feel in the clothing. Get a new hairstyle, do your nails, color your hair. You might even want to throw out your nightgowns and get some special new ones that represent how you feel about yourself and love in your life.

How you feel about yourself and your ability to love and be loved should be reflected in your dress and manner.

Now let’s take a look at the bedroom. Is there a nightstand on each side of the bed? A table on each side? Do things in your bedroom in pairs. Two of each item. Make the bed inviting to your senses. If you love big plump pillows to recline on at night make sure they are pretty, that they are comfortable and inviting. Adding flowers and plants to the room invites positive energy. Place Rose Quartz, Red Jasper stones or garnets on either side of the bed. A small fountain with these gemstones is a wonderful way to add the flowing energy of love into your space.

Remember, making a space in your life for love invites love to come into that space. Clearing out the old energy by lighting candles, incense, placement of flowers fills the space with invitation.

Donna DeVane
Manyfeather 2006