When you were growing up. Your mother ever tell you “ Don't rush things.“ “you got all the time in the world to find the special someone.“ or “ You'll time will come.“ we'll if my time has come. I diffently missed the bus. Because I shure haven't found that special someone. I dated in the past. I even had a relationship for 16 long years. That should of ended after the second year. But we were so afraid of being alone we just held on to each other we'll she moved on. Found that special someone. I believe how she did it was by using my “Energy.“ or “self esteem“
The past 16 years she was building her energy up, buy taking it from me. I have to explain the difference between “Energy“ and “self esteem“ 1. Energy can be passed on or taken away from Indivduals. Energy can be created within or buy actions. Exp. Words, Actions, helping out. 2. Self esteem ounce you have self esteem it can only be taken away from the individual that possess that self esteem. Self esteem is created by external factors. Exp. Getting a tan, losing weight, buying a new car. You can function with out self esteem. You can not function without energy. So what's more inportant Self esteem or energy? I would have to say energy. Lets focus on energy then. My ex girl friend was building her energy for the past 16 years. From me. I'm a producer of energy by my actions. I help those that help themselves for one thing, and always give credit where credit is due.
Right now I am in a place to where my energy is low. Why? I stoped doing the things I used to do and resorted to things I Should'nt be doing. Yes I am alone. I do have friends and family I could turn to, but what if they are energy suckers, inwhich they are what ever I do, it's not good enough Or it's what ever I can do for Them. Without even a thank you. They are sucking my precious energy. Using it for their own purpose. Making me go place's I normally won't go or Do.
Like visiting those dating sites. I dont have to name them. You know the one's that suck the energy right out of you. But it dosent have to be that way. There are allterntives. First when you go on a dating site. It's not your intentions to find a lasting relationship on that site. Your formost intention is to build your energy up, and how do you do that. We'll let me tell you first it's a cut throat world we live in. The dating site you are on your up against seasoned veterans. People who suck energy for a living. Thats what you have to Become. Make up a fablious persona about your self and live by it. Say things like. “life has been good to me,“ or “ I like many people.“ even make up stories of situations of how you meet this movie actor inwhich “he could not live up to your standards, so you let him go.“ what you are doing is making your own energy, and not giving it up to the next guy. Never go on a date with someone from a dating site. Now you have this energy or glow about you.
Go to place's where it counts like the super market. Or a restaurant. Other people will see this energy and would like to get to know you. The very fiirst thing you find out is he a self producer of energy or is he a energy sucker. Find out more goto:
