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How To Play a PLAYA
by Shae Z Em   
Rated "PG" by the Author.
     

for ladies only

How to Play a Player. "4 Ladies Only"
Current mood: accomplished
Category: Romance and Relationships

Now I know that most of us girls were played in the past and I can say AMEN to that, but as they say DON'T HATE THE PLAYER, HATE THE GAME. So right now we need to concentrate more on the game, instead of trying to find the guy of our dreams. Study the Player as much as the Game.

1. Pin Point Player-; Most players are high-maintenance, most not all, some keep a very low profile, but if he starts calling you baby and complimenting you on your beauty, it's more likely to be a fraud.

2. Don't fall-; remember do not Concentrate on his sweet talks, because you'll probably fall head over heels for him and never you ever ask your girlfriends to judge him, because their advice will only confuse you. He will probably say things like "Am so glad I met you, u r THE 1 4 me" and " I want u 2 b my 1 and only" but All you have to do is just pretend that you are falling for his SHIT and the -///love quotes that he sent to your phone,.[[!..!, gurl he didn't make them up, he got them off the internet or his EX sent them to him.

3. Think like A PlayGirl-; Players know when a girl craves attention from them, but if they are already working their "magic" on a girl, it is highly unlikely that they will give up before getting what they came for, but to keep them going, FLIRT with Them. They will feel like their techniques are working. ( if you're caught up in the moment, when u seem to realize his personality and sense of humour amazes you.... look into yourself and say..What is this Guy's Intention with me? How far into "this so called relationship" are we?) U will want to find good answers in your head but your heart will tell u the truth.

4. Dates, Dates, Dates-; he probably has spent a lot on you already, and you have probably just given him a little kiss on the cheek or forehead, but don't allow his money to $$$$Swell your head$$$$ and by this point he will probably be fading away, because he is realizing how long it is taking you to give in, but don't worry, he is still there.

5. Change his course-; Cancel dates at last minute, and if he calls you up and cancels before you, don't act upset, pretend that it's cool and DO NOT ask why he cancelled.

6. No, No, No-; Do not attempt to call him over, and over again, (if he doesn't answer his phone) he will think of you as a pathetic little B*t*h who is drooling over him. This is the thing with us girls, we do that a little bit too much, so if you call him twice or 3 times and he doesn't answer, don't call him back, until he calls you. " In some cases this is where it usually ends but at least you know that you weren't played"

********However Nothing Impresses a player, than a woman who can RESIST him.....well...sometimes. But if he comes back to you and deep, deep, deep down u know he is being AUTHENTIC give him the real deal and don't be afraid because you know that you are the prize and after all the playing you did he is still back at your door. ..............................If you have any questions to ask me, don't hesitate.... I won't bite, lol.


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Reviewed by Pelar Brown (Reader)
Reviewed on September 13, 2010
Yo the post was very useful and interesting but i dont know if the author realized that she put the N word in there..if so..my respect for u has went down about..hmm..sea level..

Reviewed by Lean read (Reader)
Reviewed on December 15, 2009
How do i start to play him? what do i do? We have been talking he is on varsity basketball he has tried to hit on many girls before i think i'm not the the only one he is trying to hookup with right now and i really want to play him back!!!!

Reviewed by C Here (Reader)
Reviewed on September 17, 2009
Ok, so I want to play a player. I now realize that it is all a game and I have removed all emotion from it. I have been involved with a man for the past 6 months and we have had a sexual experience once. He still calls me and texts me but usually at odd hours and when it is convient for him. I came to realize that he is playing me and I want to turn the cards around. We live approx. 4 hours apart, see eachother about once a month, talk, chat, and text daily. Things were hot and heavy in the beginning but they have been tapering off within the past few weeks. I really want to play him back and then drop him. Any suggestions

Reviewed by amanda kraft (Reader)
Reviewed on July 23, 2009
wow. i had just been played so i desided to learn how to play a player. that would be when i found this site. what you wrote word for word was me. i wasnt able to realize it till it was too late tho. ive been out of the game for a very long time....actually im really not for sure i ever got to be in the game really. either way, i guess now all that is left to do would be move on but i really want to get back at him somehow, i just dont know how. its suppose to be done and over and hes already moved on to another but just want to make him feel like pay some way. any advice on that one?

Reviewed by Terri Davis (Reader)
Reviewed on April 28, 2009
The funny thing about "playing a playa" is after playing you realize that you are just as much a playa as he is. Men act like it's muder to find out they have been played yet they can play a women and don't care about her emotions at all. Karma is a mutha!!

Reviewed by melissa grah (Reader)
Reviewed on October 28, 2008
How can I tell if hes trying to play me??? one of his coworkers told me he s a womanizer but on our first date he didnt try anything like that. We held hands he didnt even try to kiss me goodnight, later told me he wanted to but, chose not to he wanted to be a gentleman!!! He was a complete gentleman even walked me to my car and said goodnight. I was shocked!!! He asked for a second date.

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