This is my opinion on Marriage, a crucial part in everyone's life.

MARRIAGE

Marriage which ties two lives for a life long bond. Which is very significant in anyone's life and which changes the course of one's life very drastically.

Two people of opposite sex unite to form a family. To be a life long companion to our significant special. To make such a life a very happy one,
the couple should polish their mentalities and their behaviour.

Honesty is the sexiest thing which a man can give to a woman. Then what about woman? Understanding is the sexiest thing which a woman can give to a man. If it is achieved, then they will be the best couple. Children will be the gift they give to themselves.(Not a mechanical union but a caring and understanding one).

To all that to happen, the first thing a couple should take care of is to reserve time only for them to interact. They should share each and every thing. With whom we can share? With our friends. So one should make one's life partner a best friend. Whom we can trust. On whom we can rely.

To make friends with, we should first say everything about us, our nature, our feelings, likes and dislikes and the most important thing is what we expect from our life partner. We should also let the other person reveal about him/her self, their expectations. Next the nature of their family members. So that it will be easy for others to know how to behave, how to correspond etc., so that there will be no misunderstanding.

Then their ideas on when to give birth to children, how to bring them up. My view is every couple should give birth to their first kid only after two years of their marriage so that there will be sufficient time, quality time to spend together and to understand each other very well. Meanwhile a woman can prepare mentally and physically for her re-birth. Later when we grew old, when we look back, we will be proud of the precious moments we spend together when we are the only person who can get the love of our special wholly not even diverted to children.

To accomplish or achieve this motive, we should first love and respect each other. Everyone knows that Marriages are made in heaven. God has selected a partner for us. This means this is a very significant relationship from many births. Whether it is a love or arranged one, we should make our love evergreen. More important is expression. We should be romantic in such a way that we should convey in every way that we love the other person. We should show our care and concern. We should express and confess that the other person is the love of our life and the centre of our Universe.

Then no matter how many obstacles come, how many difficulties to face, the couple will be happy. A marriage will be a successful marriage so long as they create a feel in other person that life is good and changed for the better with the stepping of other person into our lives.

A successful marriage leads to a good family and a happy home. A good family makes a good society. A good society heads for a good community and country and then this world will be a better place for everyone to live in.