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My views on the current ideology of Indian Parents.
In India, from more than a decade, Girls' parents are very crazy about foreign returned or foreign-working Son-in-laws. Me and my friend usually laugh a lot because we get to know that the groom is a software engineer working in USA, for every news of the marriages of our friends,seniors or relatives.
These marriages also will be very surprising. Bride families are sound parties. They keep everything ready. They just hunt for the good boys(ok.ok. Gentlemen). These good boys are so busy. They come to India for a one month vacation. Their parents select the girls whom they like and submit them to their boys. They just ok one girl and marry her.
If the girl has passport and the boy has enough time to wait for the VISA of his newly wedded wife, the girl is lucky to fly to the respective country. Otherwise she has to wait here learning VB, Oracle(as directed by her hubby). Since it is her new god who had issued the order, she has ought to accept it. So ridiculous for a girl who actually wishes to dream sweet nothings, has to learn something.
Where does this leisureless journey ends? His intension is to get her a job there. He and she will be busy. Where is the time for them to interact, to speak their heart. No doubt they will eventually give birth to their children.
But do they ever have time to spend with their kids? Can they actually take care of them as they generally wish for?
I am in no way intended to hurt anyone's feelings. I only expressed my purely personal opinion. What I mean to say is,
MEN SHOULD UNDERSTAND WOMEN.
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