My opinion on men especially to Indian men.

People who read my poems and articles say that I am against males. I can't say Feminist. But that is not true . One thing I can say I may have some prejudices about men.

I never feel scared to talk to male because I studied in co-ed school and college all thru my academics. I have no stage fear too since I participated in Dance,Drama, Elocution, Essay Writing, Seminars and Group Discussions.

I never use the term "Boy Friend" because I interpret that word for a lover. So I always use friends in boys. I never tolerate if anyone mention me as their girl friend.

I hate two qualities in men. Male Ego and Soft corner for women or melting for women. If they get rid of these two qualities, they will be good. I also don't like boys commenting girls. What did you get by commenting them? They feel to comment girls as their birth right.

I may be optimistic about their nature. I wonder how many male do really indulge if a woman who is good in everything(Beauty,Intelligence,Generosity,Wealth etc.,etc.,) offer herself to them?
Without any intimacy, do they decide to proceed? I don't know.
But I am confident that atleast half of their population will not. I think Male also are chaste(if not all, atleast some) and they also guard their dignity. That means they too are good. But why do they behave cheaply at times?

When any debate arises on the topic that who is great whether men or women, the first thing men will say is:
We can remove the shirt and stand before everyone. Can you female do that?
My question is: What did they achieve by doing that. Is it good for anything?

If you feel the sense of fresh air, we, women, feel comfortable without removing it.

I feel both men and women are equal. They are first humans. Anyone who do good work, put their life to maximum use for the good of mankind are great.

In my coming articles, I want to express my opinion on Man-Woman relationships. Men also are good. They love their wives. But Communication gap is there. Men need to know about the feelings of the women so that they can understand better. I want change in men. They should be sensitive to the feelings of women.No doubt about the change in the thinking of men when compared to our previous generation. But to achieve cent percent equality, men need to be more understanding and accommodating.

No Dirty comments or vulgar language please. These articles are only to good boys, gentle men and good grandfathers. You do not mail me. But for the questions I pose, for the matters I suppose, you try to give answers to yourselves. If any one man can change and look after his wife well, my purpose of sharing my views will be served.

When man and woman think in a broad way, they together can make this world a happy place to live in. What do you say?