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· A Forbidden Love Affair: Part 5

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· Measuring Thresholds for Transformation

· For Such A Time As This

· What Do You Think Jesus Saw in David?

· A Palm Sunday Reflection


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· Missing What I Love Most

· One Hand, One Heart

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Words Of Destiny Defining Dreamers
by Alvin C. Romer
Last edited: Sunday, January 17, 2021
Posted: Sunday, January 17, 2021



     
Insight is given on taking advantage of dreaming destined value.

    Are you a dreamer, always allowing nope bring part of someone g that may be a progenitor of truth? Do your dreams tend to be fleeting because you lose faith in them materializing? Real dreamers, people who have dreams that may be scary to most, and whose dreams who were probably scary to them before they accomplished them, all know this simple fact, the power to your destiny is in your hands! The decisions that you make will have great effect on where you are actually able to go in life. If you aren't really happy with where your life is right now, then it is time to make some changes. When we settle for less than all that we dream, we aren't only left without a dream, we will eventually be left with huge pockets full of emptiness in our lives. Start to do things that you really are interested in doing. Don't just dream, and plan, but be sure to take action! Feel your life more everyday by doing what is inside of your heart on a consistent basis. Never settle for where you are, keep climbing! Just being happy is something that we can all do. Often times we look at the things we don't have and we complain, instead of being grateful for the life that we already have, and the fact that our lives will always have the potential to get better. Many of us focus on things like how high gas prices are, instead of the fact that we are fortunate to have a car, since not everyone is as fortunate as us to have one. Instead of seeing the wrong, or the shorter side of each situation, try to see the cup as half full. Eventually there will be a time when you realize that it is the times that you struggled that make life worth living, not just being successful. Just be happy, never take a moment for granted, and continue to live your best life in the pursuit of happiness!

    Though many of us are very ready to grow up, mature and do the things that we dream about, it is important to grasp the concept that not everyone around you will be ready to go along with the changes you feel that you must make in your life. Never let the people who aren't ready for going the places that you are going stop you and eventually drag you back in a place they may want you to be happy. Understand that you aren't going to always be happy about leaving behind people in your life that aren't willing to change, but leaving behind friends and family who drag or slow you down, will only help bless you, so that you may be better able to help bless them later. Remember that without change in your life, you leave no chance for yourself to grow, and if you are no longer growing, in actuality you are doing nothing more than dying faster. You must make a "choice" to take a "chance" or your life will never "change". If you ever want to get to where you really want to be you have to be willing to make the choices and take the chances. Nothing really worth having in life comes super easy. Without being willing to take a few risks, and make a few choices that may not be the most popular choices, chances are you won't see all of the success and greatness you are destined to. 
    Some people wait to see if the choice they made is the choice that should have been made, while others choose to sit back and acknowledge the fact that it isn't just about the choices you make, but how you go about effecting or challenging change. It is about the choices that you continue to make, day in and day out. Sure you can make some big choices to change your life. But if you don't continue to make the small choices, to make the big changes, you will probably continue to remain as the same person. If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello
. Sometimes we have to be brave enough to say goodbye to the life we used to know, so that we can make a better life for ourselves. As humans, we are instinctually attached to remain in an environment that brings us comfort consistently. The sad thing is, by doing this, we miss out on the greatest part of life, challenging ourselves. If we never are willing to get off of our butts, and say goodbye to the old us, there will never be a new us. To transform yourself into the new upgraded version, you have to be willing to upgrade. Upgrading may mean that you remove some of the older parts of yourself, parts that no longer benefit you, and replace them with new parts! These new parts have to be parts that actually contribute to making you a better you! Forget the fear of change and uncertainty, and make a clear goal of where you want to be.

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