Although definition of love has changed the according to law, that does not mean the importance of marital success has reduced. No one wants to get a divorce, because it changes loving hearts to vindictive and spiteful hearts that once were loving and respectful. Love is still love, and relationships and marriage love must have it in order for them to succeed. In addition, pleasure, intimacy is extremely important, because without it, everything falls apart. I am tired of people claiming to love each other and fail miserably to have sex on a daily basis to keep one another happy and satisfied. Marriage and relationships are beautiful, and if priorities are in order, couples do not have to wake each morning depress, stressed, and discovering they may have married or committed themselves to the wrong person.