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The Tao of Tsau -- Second Chances
6/4/2010 4:21:13 PM


"Don't blow a second chance."

I sometimes wistfully contemplate how nice it would be to be perfect, to not make mistakes, to always be able to make the correct decisions.  Each time that I get into this mindset, I inevitably step into a mine field.

Perfection is not something with which humans were blessed.  Mistakes are a regular part of our daily existence and our learning experience. Yung was one of those rare mentors that tolerated mistakes up to a point.  He always made sure that you understood what went wrong and what might have been a better decision.  It was almost impossible to use up your second chances with Yung.  However, there was one caveat -- if you were going to make mistakes, be sure that you made new ones.  He seldom tolerated a repeat of a prior shortcoming.

I would add that along with challenging yourself to make new and better errors that you cultivate and practice the use of three important words: "It's my fault."  Nothing disarms a critic faster than admitting to your mistake.  The acceptance of blame should almost immediately be followed  by "and here's what we can do about it."

People are expecting you to deny responsibility and to make excuses.  If you do not do that in error situations, you almost always disarm your critic and take back control of the situation.

Therefore, project managers should strive to stretch themselves so that their errors are new and creative and bring learning to the project.  They should also learn to fully accept blame and make sure that their teams are shielded from too much flak when a mistake is made.  After the recovery and success make sure that the team claims success, not the project manager.



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• NaNoWriMo Day 17: 33714 Words - Wednesday, November 17, 2010
• NaNoWriMo Day 16: 31977 words - Tuesday, November 16, 2010
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• NaNoWriMo Day 12: 23087 Words - Friday, November 12, 2010
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• The Tao of Tsau: Sense of Humor - Wednesday, August 18, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau - The Learning Journal - Tuesday, August 17, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Are you on the right bus? - Wednesday, August 11, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Progress - Tuesday, August 10, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Timing - Monday, August 9, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Flexibility - Thursday, August 5, 2010
• The Tau of Tsau: Living - Wednesday, August 4, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Vacation - Friday, July 16, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Knowledge - Wednesday, July 14, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Attitude - Tuesday, July 13, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Urgency - Monday, July 12, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Collaboration - Friday, July 9, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Patience - Thursday, July 8, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Common Sense, The Sequel - Wednesday, July 7, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Deadlines - Tuesday, July 6, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Leaving a Legacy - Friday, July 2, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Status - Thursday, July 1, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Conflict - Wednesday, June 30, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Micromanagement - Tuesday, June 29, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Low Priorities - Thursday, June 24, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Creative Panic - Wednesday, June 23, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: My Punishment - Tuesday, June 22, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: The Island of Dreams - Tuesday, June 22, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Listening - Tuesday, June 22, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: Winter - Monday, June 21, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Are you doing the right thing? - Monday, June 21, 2010
• The Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: In Memoriam of Lauretta Delisle who died May 16, 1910 - Friday, June 18, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Servant Leadership - Friday, June 18, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: A Boy's Dream of Thanksgiving - Thursday, June 17, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Business - Thursday, June 17, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: Farewell to the Brook - Wednesday, June 16, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Surprises - Wednesday, June 16, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: Forget-Me-Not - Tuesday, June 15, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Common Sense - Tuesday, June 15, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: A Summer Maid - Monday, June 14, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Ongoing Communications - Monday, June 14, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Scope - Thursday, June 10, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Durocher: Nothing at All - Wednesday, June 9, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: An Epitaph - Wednesday, June 9, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Satisfaction - Wednesday, June 9, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau -- Tools - Tuesday, June 8, 2010
• Poetry of Esther Parent Durocher: A Kiss - Monday, June 7, 2010
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• The Tao of Tsau -- Knowing - Thursday, June 3, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau -- Commitment - Wednesday, June 2, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau -- On Teamwork - Tuesday, June 1, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau -- The Unexpected - Friday, May 28, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau -- Value of All Work - Thursday, May 27, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau: Consulting Engagements - Wednesday, May 26, 2010
• The Tao of Tsau -- Productivity: Persistence - Friday, May 21, 2010
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