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Let sleeping dogs lie
8/7/2022 5:44:45 AM


During the week I went round to a friend's house (to admire as she had moved since I'd last seen her and yes, it was very lovely) for coffee. The two dogs greeted me like a long lost friend. As it was a hot, summery day, I'd got my flipflops on and perched on a high stool by the island in the centre of the kitchen, heard them flipflop off my feet and land on the floor. I gave it no more thought. I mean, why would I? Unbeknown to me a silent robber, slipped away with one of them while we were chatting and returned after an unspecified length of time, only to present me with half a flipflop! The perils of having a year old labrador! My labs have got past that stage and I'd completely forgotten what they used to be like. My friend was mortified, the dog delighted and I couldn't stop laughing. Fortunately they were old sandals, already falling apart a bit but a pair I've been loathe to part with for comfort reasons. Chewed and eaten beyond repair - literally half the sandal was missing, they are definitely in the bin now.
At the beginning of the week, I possibly reached the pinnacle of my tennis career when I played for the first team, something which I never ever thought I would but owing to holidays and other engagements, they were desperate (well, they must have been). The match was against the team at the top of the league, unbeaten this season, phenomenal results; we were under no illusions that we were not going to be their next victims.
They arrived. The average age of the team must have been around 17 years old. They came with an entourage, including a coach and someone who took notes. They were amazing players, far, far too good for the local league and far too good for us (though in my defence, my partner and I did have a few moments of brilliance -not many, but some.) The reason though that I'm writing this is because I found the whole thing rather tragic. Yes, they were brilliant players but they had clearly been coached to the point of automatism. They showed no emotion, never smiled, never said 'good shot' or 'well played'. What is the point of playing at the level we do if it's not for some fun and pleasure? it worried me hugely and I'm still worrying a week on. What are these young people like in other aspects of their lives?
My review with my PT took place one morning. Thank goodness it was too wet and slippy to do cardio work outside. His evil look (such a shame as he's such a good looking bloke) is more evil than I remember and I now have a new programme to see me into the winter which is hard, hard work and includes the banana, an exercise which is an upside down plank, for those of you conversant with the jargon. Believe me when I say that it's hard, as I've just done legs day this morning and I can assure you that all I am capable of now for the rest of the day is sitting down, possibly lying down.
A couple of evenings ago we had the end of season BBQ at the tennis club, with fire pit and the official opening of the padel courts. It was well attended, the food was good (everyone had brought a contribution) and even though the topping on my profiteroles had not quite gone according to plan, they still tasted pretty yummy.
In a couple of weeks the carpet will be replaced on the indoor courts and that'll certainly ruffle a few feathers when members find out that it feels very different.
Out in the garden room, two dogs sleeping by my side. Their regular breathing is a little hypnotic. I may just join them for half an hour......zzzzz


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