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Keeping My Job
by Karen C Vanderlaan → (All Poetry by Karen C Vanderlaan)
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All these and so many more are frustrations felt while teaching and helping to raise these kids-a bit of a rant I am afraid

Keeping my job


 


Twelve years old with a volatile temper


Foul mouthed anger erupts at the drop of a hat


Mom says she just has no “fu……” idea


Why her “God damned” son won’t just straighten up


 


This youngster cannot seem to focus


Sits slumped over, his head in his arms


Falling asleep soon after the morning pledge


Mom says she tells him to go to bed


 


She is sent to the office—again


To change into something appropriate for school


With a roll of her eyes and flip of her hair


Cannot reach either mom or dad


 


She, though disheveled, is never late for school


Her homework is never attempted


Notes sent home for signatures are never signed


But she shows up early for breakfast each day


 


I want to scream that they are at fault-


Kids deserve to be nurtured and loved


They need limits set and, yes, god forbid discipline


Not just words to placate those dealing day to day


 


These same kids are seen, all about town


They live with volatile parents


Who have taught them well to be bullies


And leeches on a system that should not have to support


 


They are lost in the wind with no anchors at hand


No family meals, they fend for themselves


They wander at night way past curfew


Or watch late night TV for want of company


 


I don’t scream what I see—must keep my job


Need to keep things politically correct


But I am here to tell you, many parents don’t parent


They just produce lives with little no responsibility felt


 


 


 


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 Reviews of "Keeping My Job"
Reviewed by Art Hernandez
Reviewed on February 24, 2008
Somewhere the loss of discipline was eroded along with knowledge of parenhood...a sad reality of the present generation...


Reviewed by Chrissy McVay
Reviewed on February 19, 2008
Go ahead and rant. I imagine it is frustrating...and yes, kids do need limits! They need a 'parent', not a 'buddy', they already have friends...

Chrissy

Reviewed by Bonnie May
Reviewed on February 16, 2008
You have said so much that we all think but don't know how to express. I wish all those parents could read this but then, they probably wouldn't understand. This is a very thought provoking poem. Great job my friend and great writing. Love, Bonnie

Reviewed by Debby Rosenberg
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
ditto Marilyn...hang in there, you are a lighthouse in their world of darkness, whether you or they are aware of it.

Reviewed by Kathy Armijo
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
Our wonderful system has made it difficult for caring adults to impact our youth in positive ways. Regardless of what one says or does, the parent/child has the court system on their side. Yet, when these same children grow up and become societal problems - they claim the system wasn't there for their children. Now, how messed up is this?

Good teachers will always have these problems facing them and feel frustrated. Keep up the good work. 'Saving' one is better than closing ones eyes to the problems in the classroom.

God bless you. Kathy

Reviewed by Marilyn Rice
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
Karen,
I'm so glad you were able to just sit down and vent. Because it's important to be able to do that every so often in such a high stressed job like yours. Take heart, though, my friend. You may never know in this life just how much impact you have on some of these children. I can say with great confidence that years from now there will be adults who still remember that wonderful teacher. Some will remember you in general terms, the positive affect you had on their lives. Some will remember an especially tough day when you were there. Some will remember words from you which, by then you may have forgotten. But words which helped to change the course of their life. And perhaps there will be some who just managed to get through one more day, with breakfast food in their bellies. I pray for you, for the children and yes even for the parents, grandparents or other guardians who are in their lives, the ones who are struggling to love, nuture and discipline them and even for those who are either unable or unwilling to do so, perhaps they were once wearing the very same shoes of those which they've handed down to the their ofspring. May the Good Lord help them all.

Reviewed by Rebecca Lerwill
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
I can't imagine teaching in this society. Parents seem to give away their responsibility of raising their own kids, and then teachers get sued when they actually do take on the responsibility and try to straighten out those little buggers.
It is indeed, damn shame!
Love,
Becca~

Reviewed by Randall Barfield
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
Isn't it awful? They sometimes produce just as swamp animals but with less effectiveness!!! I doubt swamp animals are as negligent as these humans you speak of!!!

Reviewed on February 12, 2008
So hard is your job. How sad it is that these so called parents are not really doing their job. Some people should have a license to be a parent--nice work.

Reviewed by J. Allen Wilson
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
Truth spoken from eyes that see...
"Kids deserve to be nurtured and loved"
This is the key....well done

Reviewed on February 12, 2008
You got that right, Karen - what ever happened to "training a child in the way they should go, and they will not depart from it?" They took God out of school, prayer and discipline out of the home, no wonder our kids are apathetic, lost souls!!! Excellent rant, you have all right to speak your mind, many feel as you do (but can't buck the system.

(((HUGS))) and love, Karla.

Reviewed by Mr. Ed
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
But I am here to tell you, many parents don’t parent
They just produce lives with little no responsibility felt

As a life-long educator and school administrator, my wife would say the very same. Good parenting seems to be dying in this modern day land of ours, as are so many other once wonderful things.



Reviewed on February 12, 2008
They need to get rid of this "political correctness" garbage and let the parents raise the kids, and put discipline BACK into the homes and schools! It's no wonder so many of our kids today are so out of control! Sad! I agree with you 100%, Karen! Parents today need to be PARENTS and NOT their kid's best friend!! I see this all too often when I go out in public, and it angers me!

(((HUGS))) and much love, your friend in Tx., Karen Lynn. :(

Heartbreaking write!

Reviewed by Chantilly Lace (Reader)
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
Excellent writing,totally with ya..take care...HUgs

Reviewed by Dawn Anderson
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
I agree with you 100%, Karen. Parenting requires love, disipline, and hard work. I, too am tired of parents that just pop out babies, and expect them to grow by themsleves. Excellent work.

Reviewed by Jerry Bolton (Reader)
Reviewed on February 12, 2008
Amen. We are bercoming a nation of "Gimmie sumptin'" . . . And all the while Nero is fiddlin' . . . I'm proud of you for this one especially, Karen . . . (I think they've lost my books . . . Damnit, Getting ready to go to the post office as we speak . . .)


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