Let us not forget that what ever we do and the way we live our lives, affects our loved ones, whether we know it or not, whether we like it or not, lets be living examples to who we want our children and loved ones to be.
We sometimes fill our loved ones with so much vanity and forget to true ly love them, then we expect them to be Icons because of the fact that we gave them things, meanwhile all along they have been on the same spot without growing waiting for real love to come around.