Remember son why your father died today,he went to war to fight for our freedom, I tell my son that each year on this day we remember those that fight for us and die for us . I miss him, my son tells me every year and I smile and say that is the first part of showing that you loved him, then he tells me he is angry in fact his father left but so was I in time the hurt will go away but that is why we have days like this too remember loved ones and to say just goodbye.My son then cried and I then too said that is part two of growing up and becomeing a man you not afraid too show your emotions and feelings you have,But then my son grew up finally became a man and he to went off to fight in war I was angry he left but forgave him when I heard he died too, hatred never solve anything neither does anger understanding and love are all the weapons that we really need .