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The Discreet Guide TM
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Category:
Business/Investing
Publisher: Whistling Rabbit Press
ISBN-10: 0984736042
Type: Non-Fiction
Pages: 204
Copyright: May 2014
ISBN-13: 9780984736041
Price: $9.99 (eBook)
How to enhance your professional presence through self-awareness and seeing yourself as others do.
Exceptional Presence allows others to see, hear, and feel the whole you.
Feeling stuck at work? Is your potential being underestimated? Have a new job and know you have to raise your game? Do you suspect you don't come across well and don't know why?
Now become Magnetic, Magnanimous, and Memorable.
Savvy advice, specific examples, and tactical exercises to develop your presence-in months, not years.
Learn how to: become other-focused to see and hear yourself as others do; modify your behaviors to manage others' perceptions; discover your differentiators and use them to your advantage; develop situational sensitivity to fit in or STAND OUT; create your unique persona to become more of who you already are; practice using training techniques designed for actors and athletes.
Excerpt
Let’s suppose you must wear an eye patch. For whatever reason— an infection, light sensitivity, or a lazy eye—you have been directed to wear one. On one hand, you might bemoan this misfortune and complain about how you’re going to stick out because of the eye patch—everyone is going to notice and talk about the “person with the thing on his eye.” On the other hand, you could accept your fate and decide to take a different approach. Could a different attitude make you feel special instead of weird? What if you decide to have fun with it and decorate your eye patch with flowers and glitter? Or make a joke out of it by accessorizing with a prosthetic hook? Or hand out several at a staff meeting because it’s the “latest fad.” Claiming the eye patch or “owning” it increases your confidence and lets others feel more comfortable about it too.
Accepting the trait that you are so upset about lessens its sting and lets you see it for what it is—a differentiator. And here’s the big news: Differentiators are good. They let you stand out from the crowd. They are what make you you. They are to be embraced, developed, and treasured. We need to be kinder to ourselves and others about our unique traits. Without those, we would all be same. That would be a very boring world.
--excerpted from You, Not I: Exceptional Presence through the Eyes of Others by Jennifer K. Crittenden, Whistling Rabbit Press, 2014
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