All of us are placed into a mold from the moment we are conceived. That mold contains expectations, assumptions, and inhibitions that make us feels secure, hindered, or both. Contained within these pages is a journey. It is a journey of pain and joy, of self discovery, of freedom, and of hope. These are the musings of a rather unconventional fellow who is coming to terms with what lies outside the mold of tradition and legalism. On the surface these musings are simply opinions, but deep down they are similar to the silent cry of many who are afraid to be honest about themselves, and to break free from their own unhealthy mold. These things are written with the hope that all who read them might embrace the freedom to be honest about who they are, and who they were designed to be by a loving God. In his debut book, Charles talks frankly about his journey of discovery, with the desire that others will be able to experience that same freedom in their own personal journey with God.