The number one issue that couples deal with after the affair is ‘trust’. Although you want trust in your marriage, after either an emotional affair or physical tryst, you may not know how to regain trust. Trust may not be what you think it is. You may be confusing a state of ‘emotional’ security with trust.

Although you want trust in your marriage, do you know what trust is?

How does cheating impact trust?

Which comes first, trust or forgiveness?

What makes rebuilding trust so hard?

How does spying on your spouse impact your marriage?

What is the connection between mistrust and misery?

Do you want to know how to rebuild trust in your spouse?

The answer to these and other questions about the #1 problem with affairs and infidelity are addressed in this guide to rebuilding trust in your marriage.

This “After the Affair” series book on trust will help you:

-Understand what trust is

-Identify who you lost trust in

-Understand how betrayal in affairs impacts your children

-Know where and how to start rebuilding trust in your marriage

-Learn how a cheater can get their spouse to trust them again

-Learn how secret affairs impact your marriage

-Learn about the relationship between romance and trust

-Understand why your memory may be lying to you

-The dangers of confusing trust and forgiveness

Issues about affairs addressed in this volume of the “After the Affair” series book on trust in marriage include:

-The effects of spying on marriage

-Dealing with loosing trust with your children

-The dangers of the 111-minute expectation window

-Areas where you can not trust your spouse, even after you forgive the affair

-Why you need to rebuild trust gradually

-The dangers of trusting too much too fast

-The dangers of confusing trust with feeling secure

This relationship guide also shows you ways of dealing with difficult and painful situations like:

-What happens when you trust the cheater too soon?

-What areas to start rebuilding trust in your marriage

-How to handle trust and betrayal issues with your children

-Telling the difference between real trust and the Hollywood version of trust

Even though you want to trust your partner again, you’ve lost all confidence in yourself and them. You want to know how to forgive the cheating and how to trust your spouse, yet are not sure which comes first. Getting trust and forgiveness in the wrong order often brings more heartache. The affair changes the trust you have in your spouse, and changes your ability to trust yourself. The affair is a wake-up call that your marriage needs help.

Instead of second guessing yourself about trust in your marriage, you can know what to do and where to begin. You will learn that trust is more than just feeling secure. There are ways of knowing whether the trust in your marriage has a solid foundation or if it is based on emotional hype. You can know what specific steps to take in rebuilding trust in your marriage. Although you do not always see foundation, you know whether or not the foundation is solid.

Although you say you want to “trust” your spouse after the affair, you may be confused as to what trust is. Rather than hoping for the best and wishing well, you will learn that trust in marriage requires more than positive energy and good faith.