Amazon The Relationship Help Doctor The Optimize Center Category:  Self-Help Publisher: People Skills Press ISBN-10:  0971168903 Type: Non-Fiction Pages: 225 Copyright: 1999 Renew your perspective. Change your habits. Create the life you want. This book will help you create a life based on what is significant, important and valuable to you.  "Are you sending yourself more negative messages than positive ones? How do you speak to and about yourself in your mind?  Try this: Only say things about yourself that you want to be true...even the things you only say in your mind.   It will make a tremendous difference in your energy, focus, and perspective. It will certainly change your relationships."  ~ Rhoberta Shaler, PhD    The Relationship Help Doctor   Excerpt "Perception is everything. You choose what meaning you give to events, situations, and circumstances. That is such a powerful realization. You choose how you respond with your feelings, your words, and your actions. Choice is powerful. Are you exercising your choices? Some folks don't. It is the difference between grabbing hold of the side of the boat with white knuckles while letting someone else steer, and taking the helm yourself and choosing the destination and the route. It is the difference between seeing yourself as an effect or a cause. Which position do you prefer?

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