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SM in Daily Life
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Grappling with trust in a relationship with a control-freak.

SM in Daily Life
I have been grappling with the following two issues that I want to share with members. First my experience of being in a sub/dom relationship and how it carried over to my every-day life and second the fine line between SM and abuse or, as some might call it, extending the limits without consent.
I was deeply in my Master’s power and did everything he wanted me to do in and out of bed. His demands were many and his real-life needs intruded into our sexual bliss. Integrity is key but I, as a submissive, was vulnerable and over a period of time he led me down a long, slippery slope where trust was stretched to its limit.
Learning how to integrate SM into daily life is a challenge. I would be interested to know if other ladies face similar dilemmas and how they deal with them.
Abridged version of original published in the Lady O Society Newsletter No. 32.


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