Love,the sort you see in her eyes when she gives you an idle stare,or an impatient glare or the one you are assured of when he goes the extra mile for you once in a while is a feeling which is treasured.For those who have known the feeling or will ever know it-that is.

The mutual attraction which generates that roller coaster called love,is borne out of physical attraction,shared interests,caring and compatibility.Sporadic differences only serve to remind us that we are still only human.But when such disagreements bubble to the surface too often,then that intoxicating passion known as love could very easily fizzle away.Then wedlock(if you've reached there),could very easily become a padlock.And believe me,the day your partner finds the key,he or she is gone for good.And gone with your spouse will be those electric sparks that ignite the fire in your life.So generally,if you want that relationship to result taking marriage vows,then avoid those arguements like you would poison.

If love has already led to marriage for you,then disagreements in the form of those passionately over heated arguements should be seen as the quicksand which they are.Doesn't matter who is wrong or right,excessive arguements,and they will surely become excessive,will definitely shorten the lifespan of your relationship.Forget for your own good,all that talk,gibberish about female assertiveness or male dominance. Please!.

Yes!,because if you don't dispose of such ideas,addiction to arguements ,will definitely sieze your spouse from you.And like somone once said,"a drug habbit is better than addiction to arguements",her reason?,"with the former,you get a chance at rehab,but with the latter,there's no such thing".In any case,the argumentative person will even argue that he or she doesn't argue.So like a terminal disease,arguements will just eat the life out of your once romantic and fulfilling relationship.

Now,as to why both sexes differ in views so strongly sometimes in a relationship?.For a number of the malefolk,a wholly accepted opinion by the woman further defines and establishes the pilot of the relationship.And quite sadly,a number of men expect that acceptance at all times,even when such views are clearly unreasonable.And an unreasonable view from a man is a fault.Which like any other fault will culminate in a malfunctioning system.

Only the system in this case is purely emotional and not mechanical.And it involves just two people,the male and female,save for the twisted,where it becomes female-female,or male-male.Were such a fault in a relationship to occur in say an automobile,a simple shuffle of spanners and sockets here and there and parts replacement would solve the problem.

But as it happens,humans aren't cars or machines,so a faulty part,e.g,a bad habbit,or detestable attitude can't just be removed and replaced,or repaired.

For the ladies,the fact that the man, like the customer always expects to be right,and the further fact that almost. every instruction(concerning every issue!)comes from the man really gives some of those ladies twitchy nerves.And when you see the red lights blinking,you had better run because the crazy fits are around the corner.

It doesn't at all help that some high profile career women give all the instructions at work, to entire teams of professionals-men like you,only to return home to the marching orders of one man.Just makes some women bare their teeth sometimes.Even when the man is right,she just flicks her pretty fingers in his face and saunters off.

Sometimes,some women resort to arguments as a tool of defiance.Defiance to every other good offer from the man due to one bad or not so good thing he has done before.So when the man says it is blue,and God knows it is blue,and she knows it too,she just decidedly looks the poor man in the eye,and says it is green.And she just digs her feet in,and argues that blue which is really and clearly blue,is green.And this attitude just pleases her in that special,unusually mischievious way,while it just trips the man's fuse making further enstrangement unavoidable.

Whatever happens,be mindful that relationships don't work like mathematics where a negative and a negative make a positive.So when the guy argues this way,and the lady argues that way,the relationship like a broken down ship,just drifts out more and more into the open sea.And like the sharks,those men and women out there,should you fall into their hands,will just affect an interest,get what they want from you,and tear the rest of your heart to pieces.

This done,you'll realise too late that this other person really loved you,but you just argued your way out of that once in a lifetime relationship.The pain,regrets,and tears are sure to follow.

ARGUING YOUR RELATIONSHIP AWAY?

Love,the sort you see in her eyes when she gives you an idle stare,or an impatient glare or the one you are assured of when he goes the extra mile for you once in a while is a feeling which is treasured.For those who have known the feeling or will ever know it-that is.

The mutual attraction which generates that roller coaster called love,is borne out of physical attraction,shared interests,caring and compatibility.Sporadic differences only serve to remind us that we are still only human.But when such disagreements bubble to the surface too often,then that intoxicating passion known as love could very easily fizzle away.Then wedlock(if you've reached there),could very easily become a padlock.And believe me,the day your partner finds the key,he or she is gone for good.And gone with your spouse will be those electric sparks that ignite the fire in your life.So generally,if you want that relationship to result taking marriage vows,then avoid those arguements like you would poison.

If love has already led to marriage for you,then disagreements in the form of those passionately over heated arguements should be seen as the quicksand which they are.Doesn't matter who is wrong or right,excessive arguements,and they will surely become excessive,will definitely shorten the lifespan of your relationship.Forget for your own good,all that talk,gibberish about female assertiveness or male dominance. Please!.

Yes!,because if you don't dispose of such ideas,addiction to arguements ,will definitely sieze your spouse from you.And like somone once said,"a drug habbit is better than addiction to arguements",her reason?,"with the former,you get a chance at rehab,but with the latter,there's no such thing".In any case,the argumentative person will even argue that he or she doesn't argue.So like a terminal disease,arguements will just eat the life out of your once romantic and fulfilling relationship.

Now,as to why both sexes differ in views so strongly sometimes in a relationship?.For a number of the malefolk,a wholly accepted opinion by the woman further defines and establishes the pilot of the relationship.And quite sadly,a number of men expect that acceptance at all times,even when such views are clearly unreasonable.And an unreasonable view from a man is a fault.Which like any other fault will culminate in a malfunctioning system.

Only the system in this case is purely emotional and not mechanical.And it involves just two people,the male and female,save for the twisted,where it becomes female-female,or male-male.Were such a fault in a relationship to occur in say an automobile,a simple shuffle of spanners and sockets here and there and parts replacement would solve the problem.

But as it happens,humans aren't cars or machines,so a faulty part,e.g,a bad habbit,or detestable attitude can't just be removed and replaced,or repaired.

For the ladies,the fact that the man, like the customer always expects to be right,and the further fact that almost. every instruction(concerning every issue!)comes from the man really gives some of those ladies twitchy nerves.And when you see the red lights blinking,you had better run because the crazy fits are around the corner.

It doesn't at all help that some high profile career women give all the instructions at work, to entire teams of professionals-men like you,only to return home to the marching orders of one man.Just makes some women bare their teeth sometimes.Even when the man is right,she just flicks her pretty fingers in his face and saunters off.

Sometimes,some women resort to arguments as a tool of defiance.Defiance to every other good offer from the man due to one bad or not so good thing he has done before.So when the man says it is blue,and God knows it is blue,and she knows it too,she just decidedly looks the poor man in the eye,and says it is green.And she just digs her feet in,and argues that blue which is really and clearly blue,is green.And this attitude just pleases her in that special,unusually mischievious way,while it just trips the man's fuse making further enstrangement unavoidable.

Whatever happens,be mindful that relationships don't work like mathematics where a negative and a negative make a positive.So when the guy argues this way,and the lady argues that way,the relationship like a broken down ship,just drifts out more and more into the open sea.And like the sharks,those men and women out there,should you fall into their hands,will just affect an interest,get what they want from you,and tear the rest of your heart to pieces.

This done,you'll realise too late that this other person really loved you,but you just argued your way out of that once in a lifetime relationship.The pain,regrets,and tears are sure to follow.