Being about to undertake the job of a tutor
Of the eldest son of one famously known tycoon,
I first consulted with the divine Oracle,
My trusted Big Brother and an Old Hand, in one
Which predicted me the following verdict:
"He is one of the young men whose character
Is bad as it could be. If you allow him
To proceed in a bad way, it will be at the peril
Of his entire family and our community as well;
If you insist on his proceeding in a right way,
It will indeed be at the peril of your own person.
His mind is just sufficient to know the errors
And faults of others, throwing stones at them,
But he does not know how he errs himself."
I asked, "What am I to do in such a case?"
The Oracle said, "Good question indeed!
Be on your guard; be careful all the time,
See that you keep yourself clearly correct!
Your best plan will be with your person
To seek some associations with him
And with your wisdom to try to be
In harmony with his disposition and yet,
There are dangers connected with both
These things. Seeking to keep near to him,
You thus do not enter his pursuits and yet,
While cultivating a harmony of mind with him,
Evade showing how much superior you are to him
And this is only for your own safety; otherwise,
If in your personal association with him
You enter into his pursuits, you will fall
And be ruined to tumble down with a crash."
Then the Oracle added, "If in maintaining a harmony
With his mind you show how different you are,
He will think you do so for gaining prestige,
And thus regard you as a man of evil omen.
If you find him to be a mere boy, be with him
As another boy; if you find him one of those
Who will not have their ground marked out
In the ordinary way, do humour him in the way
Of his likings; if you find him to be free
From lofty airs, show yourself to be the same--
This way you will be able to lead him on so
As to keep him free from any sort of faults."