It seems to be that he who too much obliges
Is involved in many troubles, and he
Who is owned by men suffers from distress.
Hence the sagely minded men
Neither own others, nor be owned by them.
I wish to remove your trouble and
Take away your distress, and it is only
To be done by inducing you to enjoy yourself
With the ways of Mother Nature which run
Beyond the human paradoxes and conflicts.
Try to figure it out for yourself. For example,
If a man is crossing a stream in a boat,
And another empty vessel suddenly comes
Into collision with it, even though he is a man
Of a choleric temper, he will not be angry with it.
But if there be a person, however, in that boat,
He will bawl out to him to haul out of the way.
If his shout be not heard, he will repeat it,
And if the other do not then hear, he will call out
A third time and again, following up the shout
With abusive terms and offensive meanings. . .
See, in case of the empty boat he was not angry,
But now he is; formerly he saw the boat was empty,
But now there is a person in it. Though in both cases
The collision objectively takes place, in the latter case
The subjective human factor prevails in the occurrence.
Don't you think our subject lays himself open to trouble?
Always,
Deborah
sage words, well said
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Love ya!
Jane