Unattached
What advantages does an unattached thing hold,
like a stone not yet claimed by a riverbed,
a thought drifting like ash on a wind that doesn’t owe its direction to anything?
Untethered, they move with the casual confidence of sparks
flung from a fire, free to land anywhere,
free to blaze or dissolve with no one to blame their trajectory on.
A person, too, clinging not to expectation,
can feel like a helium balloon with universe for a ceiling.
But freedom makes its trade in shadows.
An unattached leaf, spun loose from the branch,
does not choose the storm that takes it.
An unanchored boat, beautiful in theory,
drifts open‑eyed into rocks that do not apologize.
Even ideas, those bright, migrating birds,
sometimes lose altitude when not roosting in a mind brave enough
to shelter them through the long winter of becoming real.
There are exceptions carved into the grain of things:
the climber unattached from the wall,
not freer, just falling;
the child unattached from a hand in a crowded place,
not liberated, just lost;
the word unattached from meaning,
all sound, no heartbeat.
Not every detachment is a wing.
Some are a severing, a silence,
a sudden hollow where a connection once breathed.
And there is unattached love,
the wolf that howls not for a mate
but for the echo shaped vaguely like one;
the human heart that drifts from rib to rib
searching for a pulse that mirrors its own;
the wildflower that opens for no witness but the wind,
loving nothing in particular
and therefore everything at once.
Such love is a comet’s romance with the dark:
brilliant, free, but burning itself forward
with no promise of return.
And so the truth curls in on itself:
to be unattached is often to be free,
like a comet, a seed, a dream,
each streaking through its own unregulated space.
But…
Anything without a tether, real or psychic,
wanders inevitably into the ungoverned corners of Nature
and the unlit basements of the human interior.
Without a thread to tie it to the world,
the unattached may become its own horizon,
glorious, drifting, and quietly lost
in the endless turning of everywhere.
Nothing is permanent in this world. I wrote earlier about letting go. There's really nothing but pain in sorrow when one is too attached to anything..
Ron