How many sex positions can there really be? How about positioning yourself for long lasting pleasure?

Men and women have sex with each other all the time. We already know how that works. It is not hard to figure out! Sex is not the initiator or indicator of love and neither does it sustain love. If we could just understand this in our generation, then we would grow and excel in our relationships with the opposite sex. Love connects hearts not body parts!

But what about spiritually and emotionally? The mystery is, not understanding how to enjoy sex with each other, but how to really connect with another on a deeper level. The greater the intimacy, then the greater the sexual experience will be enjoyed.

How do you establish that deep connection that we all long for? We first must define what love really is. Love is the relationship. The mystery then seems to be this. How do we connect from our hearts both emotionally and spiritually? There needs to the understanding of one thing, that love brings it all together. Because when you understand love everything else makes sense.

When we understand how the opposite sex loves, then is pivotal to finding the right person. How does a man define love and how does a woman define love? Instead of just jumping in the sack with each other and hope it works. We need to get to know one another and understand each other. When we allow one another to be the way we we're created, we will then become a better fit.

Both men and women need a greater understanding of love, in order for their relationships to survive. I am not just talking about how to love through sex. We have had our fill of how to have great sex through many books and videos. How many positions can there really be? How about positioning you to become a student of love?

A sex life is not a love life. Who’s gonna tell people how to have a great love life, so they will have a continued fulfilling sex life? We need to learn how to love each other and not just rub each other. Sex has become the focal point on how to have a meaningful relationship! We've got it all wrong. A physical connection between a man and woman should be started from the inside out. Not the outside in.

Physical attraction is great, but if a relationship just based on chemistry. Even with good physical chemistry it doesn't ensure like-minded individuals. Men may have sex with you and not like you at all. Then there can be a negative explosion and serious withdrawal symptoms later. We need to know how to really connect with each other, to have a fulfilling meaningful relationship.

What is love anyways? Love is a mystery that must be pursued. We don't need to learn how to have make love, but how to make love work!

When you learn how to make love work, then and you will have a great sex life. A sex life in not a love life! We are generation obsessed with sexual pleasures.  Sex sells but doesn't sustain or ensure a lifetime of pleasure. Maintaining long lasting love life is a meaningful investment and a lifetime of pleasurable returns!!

Bruce L. Thompson Jr. author of the new book, The Handbook of Love; wants to talk to you about your love life!

Make your love connection today!