Sometimes things seem so bleak that we wonder if there is really any hope for either us, or the world.  There is so much bad news, and so many things wrong.  Surely there has never been a time when the world was in so much trouble, we think.  But then we see a small child, an elderly person, or someone else engage in a "random act of kindness" that so moves us that we can once again see the goodness that is all around us no matter how bad some things seem.

It is often just a matter of perspective. In the words of Thomas Fuller, "One cloud is enough to eclipse all the sun."  Sometimes we have so many personal problems that they block out rays of hope just like a cloud blocks the sun.  We may not be able to see any light at the end of the tunnel, but it is almost always there.  When things are going so badly for us that we are unable to light our own candles, we must rely on the light of the candles of others to keep us going.  And, when we are basking in the sun, it is important that we light candles for those who are momentarily walking in darkness. 

We can draw so much strength from one another. There are times when each of us has so much to cope with that we cannot continue without the help of others. Sometimes a single cheerful face and a helping hand can make all the difference in the world. And we need not feel guilty about needing help.  The idea that, if we are just strong enough, we can get through anything, with only our own resources, is a myth.  None of us are that strong. We all need the light of another's candle now and then. 

Likewise, we all have the opportunity to make an enormous difference in other people's lives at times.  Indeed, we all have a responsibility to light candles for others when we can. And we don't have to wait for someone to ask for help, or even for a specific need to arise.  There is always darkness and the need for light. We can brighten up the corner where we live, and all the corners we visit. A friendly smile for everyone we meet can make a big difference.  And acts of kindness can change the world. 

So, when we are facing some of our darkest days, why should we be hesitant to seek the help of others in lighting up our lives? And, when we have more candles than we need for ourselves, shouldn't we try to add light to the lives of others? 

Copyright 2014  Allen Smith

TB-43—Posted 05/24/2014