"Jealousy" , One of the evils in human character but which is mostly attributed to women. Among many evils, why I have chosen to write something on Jealousy is, it is the easiest one to overcome.

First of all, we see the various forms of jealousy or different situations at which we experience it, what reaction we protray on experiencing it, how to overcome, what to understand to be normal persons again.

Jealousy is an ill-feeling towards someone who got, did, possess something which we wish to have. This type of feeling is a relative to people of all ages, caste, cadre, religion etc.,etc., But reactions differ. Naturally with the first bite of Jealousy, we unconsciously avoid, begin to hate though the people who are the reason for our jealousy, did us no harm.

Our wishes may range right from getting a Rank to a lover to hardworking nature to socialising abilities to status and position to property to beauty to having a good partner to good qualities.(people who just enjoys their life despite their difficulties).

Jealousy invades us right from our childhood. When we were kids, we feel jealous if our parents show more interest towards our younger ones or to some relatives' kids.
In school, when our favourite teacher shows more concern towards another student. If two students who equally works hard, if one gets rank and the other fails in the entrance.
If some of our friends succeeded in getting the love of their beloved and ourselves can't gain the heart of our lover besides having everything what one could wish for in a partner.
If someone gets lottery or selected for an award or a colleague gets more appreciation or for someone who is younger to us but genius and is moving up the ladder.
In the case of middle aged, their children did not make it for a VISA or a job abroad while everyone in their circle have their children abroad with a green card.
In the old age, if their friends are enjoying good health and with their children taking care of them tenderly and still listening to their words.

We can give innumerable examples like this under which one may be prone to this feeling. Jealousy is not a feeling which exists all the time. Based on the emotional standards, mental health, one can be a host to this feeling.

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If we do not check or show interest in the attitudes of our children, this jealousy may cause to introvertial nature or an arrogant bossism towards the younger ones.
We should be equally careful as teachers in observing the emotions of the children. We should never create an impression that we are fond of some students in the class.
As parents to teenagers, we should be friendly towards our children so that they can share their feelings without any hesitation. We can convince them and motivate their zeal and inspire them towards higher goals.
Coming to other ages, as we are grown ups ourselves , we should be confident. We should carefully introspect ourselves. If somethings can be achieved, we should work hard. If somethings like Love or Marriage, we should accept the destiny.

Self-confidence is indirectly proportional to Jealousy. This is for the reasons or situations which we think we are capable to achieve.
Awareness or acceptance of the eternal laws of life is also indirectly proportional to Jealousy which we think we are deserved to receive.

Who always love some kind of work and pursue it, can be happy all the time.One must have Competitive Spirit but not Jealousy and Possessiveness but not Jealousy.