How To Satisfy Her, And Have Her Satisfy You

Most men dream of having the love and passion of a woman. If you want her unrestricted expression of feminine heat then you must learn the importance of foreplay. You must learn to use this valuable tool in an infinite variety of ways. Since sex starts in the brain, you should learn how to turn her thoughts on sexually and turn them toward you and making love with you throughout her day.

If you had sex with her the night before, start her day with a single red rose on her pillow, to let her know she is the rose of your heart and one of a kind in your eyes. Do this occasionally even when you did not make love the night before. Give her gentle warm kisses on her neck and shoulders and if there is no time for making love in the morning, give her some heated and loving words whispered in her ears, to take with her throughout her day and turn her thoughts toward romance. A breakfast tray with breakfast for two in bed will make her feel like a queen and have her wanting to pamper you a bit when you return home later in the evening.

Tuck a little note of love into her purse, if she goes to work, or post it on the refrigerator if she stays at home. Make it tender enough to melt her heart, tell her of her special-ness and her beauty. Make it hot enough to cause her to blush and become wet with wanting you. Tell her what you want to do to her when you get home that night, tell her how the thought of her will be making you hard all day. Call her at work if you can, whisper something tantalizing and explosive on the phone, tell her you are hard for her, ask her if she’s wet for you and you will almost hear the blush at the other end of the line.

Bring home a small gift for her, flowers, a piece of jewelry or something totally unique that you know she will love. It doesn’t have to be expensive, just expressive. Try a small volume of love poetry, some new bubble bath or massage oil. If you get home before her, start dinner, and pour her a drink. Don’t be too proud to remove her high heels, give her feet a tender massage with little kisses through her stockings on her feet and legs. Fuel her fire with words of loving admiration and don’t be at all surprised if dinner has to wait while she urges you to make passionate love to her.

Women want your genuine love and admiration and sometimes they want to be treated like the heroine in a romance novel. Learn what things you say to her that really light her fire and say them in your sexiest and most masculine way. Don’t be shy about taking the lead in lovemaking. Most women like a man who is bold and decisive and knowledgeable about a woman’s body and needs, a man who knows how to persuasively turn a maybe into a YES.

If she is not ready, help her to get ready. Run a bubble bath for her and light the candles around the tub. Offer to wash her hair or scrub her back, chances are, before her bath is finished, you will be invited to share the tub with her. Learn what her most sensitive places are and how to caress them perfectly. Be definite and not shy about what pleasure you’d like to give and receive. Offer your body to her in whatever way she might choose to enjoy it. Pick her up and take her to your bed.

Learn to distinguish her moods, does she need prolonged touches and kisses, does she want your tongue and lips to pleasure her intimately, or is she frantic already to feel you inside her? Read some good sex manual and yes, some women’s magazines, like Cosmo the help you to understand what is romantic and sensual to a woman and what touches her body craves, then give them to her liberally.

Women like to role play so learn how to portray the courtly knight or the rough cowboy with equal ease and no embarrassment. Learn how to be the master or the slave and how to use props such as handcuffs, cords and light lashes with a whip to bring both of you more excitement and pleasure. In the intimate relationship between man and woman there is no place for modesty or prudishness, learn how to be wide open for anything she might enjoy. Bring her surprises in location, position, methods of lovemaking. Never allow her to know what to expect or to become bored with your performance as a romantic lover.

Take your time and give her as long as she needs and as many orgasms as she can achieve before you release yourself to your own climax. Being her servant, and her master will pay off for both of you in prolonged pleasure and more frequent lovemaking. Boredom is the biggest enemy of sexual love, never allow it to become a part of your experience with her.

After the fireworks are over, don’t get up and leave her, for any reason you can avoid. Hold her close, whisper of her beauty and your love for her. Tell her how she has honored and completed you as a man. Stroke her hair, kiss her shoulders and lightly caress her breasts. Allow her time to come down from her sexual high into the dreamy relaxation and sleep of afterglow, resting securely in your arms.

As men we can be too proud to admit we need to learn more about a woman’s body and her responses and cheat ourselves and her out of countless memorable lovemaking experiences... or we can wise up, educate ourselves and learn how to give a woman all that she needs in an intimate relationship, thus helping her to give us all that we need.

Remember sex starts in the brain and foreplay starts many hours before making love. Build up the fire, fuel it until the end and you will soon find she can barely keep her hands and lips off you. Treat her as the queen she is and she will crown you king of her heart and body.

6-11-2007 Don Juan Amante