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Why Did You Get Married? 6/30/2008 10:34:56 AM
I was having a conversation with a young lady earlier and she asked me a question...Do I think I'll ever get married again? I thought about the question before giving my honest answer...Yes, eventually...IF I find the right man.
Then she asked if I wanted to know why she got married? This was a rather interesting question, so I said, "yes, I would love to know why you got married." This was her reply to me...
BECAUSE, I WAS TIRED OF LIVING THE WAY I AM..
ONE DAY IT HIT ME BECAUSE I FELT THERE WAS SOMETHING MISSING IN MY LIFE, AND I DECIDED TO TELL MY HUSBAND, (WHO WAS MY BOYFRIEND AT THE TIME) THAT WE NEED TO GO BACK TO CHURCH, SO HE AGREED.
I REMEMBER MY AUNT WAS TELLING ME ABOUT SHACKING UP, LIVING WRONG AND WHAT GOD WILL DO TO YOU WHEN YOU LIVE THE WAY YOU WANT TO LIVE.
I REALIZED, WHEN I READ THE BIBLE THAT MY LIFE IS NOT MINES IT BELONGS TO THE LORD SO I GOT SAVED. SO MUCH STUFF I DIDN'T KNOW WAS BLINDED BY THIS WORLD.
BUT NOW I SEE, SO BY GETTING SAVED AND WANTING TO LIVE RIGHT, I TOLD MY HUSBAND WE NEED TO GET MARRIED, ( HE WAS MY BOYFRIEND AT THE TIME) I GAVE HIM A CHOICE MARRY ME OR WE HAVE TO SEPARATE.
I MEAN, IT'S NOT LIKE HE PROPOSED. WHEN WE GOT MARRIED I WAS 8 MONTHS PREGNANT.
I'M GLAD I MADE THAT CHOICE. I MEAN, WHEN YOU GET SAVED AND YOU HAVING SEX IT FEELS LIKE RAPE. BUT IT'S A PROCESS YOU GO THROUGH YOU'RE NOT GOING TO CHANGE OVER NIGHT. I STOP CURSING, BUT IT DIDN'T HAPPEN OVER NIGHT, I STOPPED DOING ALOT OF THINGS.
BACK,THEN MY MOM USED TO SEND ME TO CHURCH EVERY SUNDAY AND BIBLE STUDY EVERY WEDNESDAY. I DIDN'T LEARN NOTHING, I GOT BAPTIZED AT MY AUNT'S CHURCH.
I GOT BAPTIZED AS A SINNER AND CAME BACK UP A SINNER, BECAUSE I WAS STILL DOING WHAT I WANT TO DO. I DID'NT UNDERSTAND BACK THEN, AND I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO HEAVEN BECAUSE I WENT TO CHURCH EVERY SUNDAY, I WAS HEADING TO HELL. BUT, NOW I THANK GOD... I AM SAVED.
When I read this young ladies words it brought tears to my eyes. Because so many of us are out there searching for certain qualities in our relationships but chances are, we're looking in the wrong places.
This comment started me to thinking and I decided to ask you....
Why Did You Get Married?...
This comment is open to everyone. Feel free to be as honest as you like.
For those of you who are no longer married (either divorced or separated)
1.) Why did you marry the first time?
2.) Do you think you'll ever do it again?
3.) What changes would you make the next time around?
For the single folks...
1.) Do you think you'll ever get married?
2.) How important is it to you to get married?
